The best way to get control of your career and stability in your life is to be great at what you do. Superstars are not out of work right now. Really. Even in finance. If you have an amazing track record in your field of work, you’ll have a job. And if you need to [...]
Browsing category "Knowing yourself"The new post-college prestige job is retail
April 15th, 2009
It used to be that the best post-college jobs were the ones that gave you a sense of security (law, medicine) or financial windfall (banking). But the finance industry and grad-school route are both dead ends at this point. Twentysomething: Why it's smart to quit a job after just two weeks of work
March 11th, 2009
This is a guest post from Jamie Varon. She's 23 years old. Her blog is called intersected. How to decide if you need a therapist
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Learn to take advice
January 28th, 2009
I receive about fifty career questions each week. The questions have a predictable diversity, but not my answers. My answers are almost always the same advice: Know yourself better. The art of knowing when to hide and when to reach out
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Office politics
January 21st, 2009
Ryan calls me from the office. I say, “Don't talk to me now. I'm sulking.” How to figure out what you should be doing with your life
January 15th, 2009
There is no other way to figure out where you belong than to make time to do it and give yourself space to fail, give yourself time to be lost. If you think you have to get it right the first time, you won't have the space really to investigate, and you'll convince yourself that [...] How to write an email that generates a useful response
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Networking
December 22nd, 2008
Most people who are on top of their game respond to most emails within 48 hours. However some emails are so terribly written that it’s actually impossible to send an answer. Other emails are so terribly written that the amount of time it would take to figure out what to answer is simply not worth [...] Make better decisions for yourself by watching decisions celebrities make
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Learn to take advice
December 10th, 2008
This week's poll is about celebrities because I love peeking into their lives in order to see the world in new ways. I love learning so much that I think that’s even why I spent so much time with the farmer even though it was bad for a long time before I stopped dating him. [...] Good blogging is simple: Write good posts (and be thankful)
November 19th, 2008
In the middle of 2007, I was interviewed by Stephane Grenier for his book, Blog Blazers. The book came out this week, and it's a nice resource for understanding the approach top bloggers take to their trade. (Examples of interviews include Seth Godin, Steve Rubel, and JD Roth.) How to go to a meeting when you want to sit home and cry
Posted to: Knowing yourself
November 3rd, 2008
Here's what last week was like: On Sunday I flew to Detroit and gave a speech at the Public Relations Society of America. Then I flew back to Madison on Tuesday and met with an investor who only wanted to talk about my blog even though I want him to put more money into my [...] The five books that wasted the most time for me
Posted to: Knowing yourself
October 21st, 2008
There are so many lists of books to read before you die, or before you turn 30, or before your job sucks the life out of you. But you probably wouldn't need to depend on a list from someone else if you could just figure out how to pick your own. Generalizing about generations is good for you
Posted to: Knowing yourself
September 18th, 2008
One of the most popular posts here is What Generation are You? Take the Test. I'm sure one reason it's popular is that people like tests. We all want self-knowledge, but we want it handed to us on a silver platter, not thrown at us in clumps of dirt by our families, or served up [...] 9/11 didn't change me overnight, even though I wish it had
Posted to: Knowing yourself | World Trade Center
September 11th, 2008
The slowest moment in my whole life was the time between when the World Trade Center fell next to me, and when someone broke a window and I climbed in to get air. In my memory this time span is about fifteen minutes. But from the historical record, I know it was about one minute. Vulnerability is the key to likability at work (and on the farm)
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Office politics
August 26th, 2008
This is the last thing I should be writing on my blog. Because it's now clear that the blog is a great dating tool. Propositions all the time. So I should not tell you this, but here it is: It turns out that I'm a lousy girlfriend. What I've been doing while I've not been posting
Posted to: Blogging | Knowing yourself
August 25th, 2008
I haven't posted for two weeks. This is the first time in ten years that I have gone two weeks without writing a column. Really. I have a track record for continuing to write when every other sane person would take a break: I wrote a column right after I delivered a baby, I wrote [...] Why you have more trouble with silence than with chatter
Posted to: Knowing yourself
August 5th, 2008
I give a lot of speeches, mostly telling people how to manage Generation Y, and how to manage their careers so that they are not jealous of Generation Y. My charm, I think, is that I don't prepare a speech. I never know, exactly, what I'll say when I stand up. It works for me—no [...] Five signs that your career is about to get vapid
Posted to: Career fulfillment | Knowing yourself
July 30th, 2008
You can tell if you are avoiding personal growth in your career because you are not feeling challenged. You can tell if you are not feeling challenged if you are not scared. Being scared is what makes life interesting. You should be scared that you are going to fail at something because if you are [...] Three bad career questions people ask me all the time
Posted to: Knowing yourself | Learn to take advice
July 14th, 2008
I'd like to tell you that there are no bad questions. But you know what? That's not true. So here are the ways people ask me questions that drive me nuts: How I started taming my workaholic tendencies
June 27th, 2008
After my first visit to the farm, I quickly invited myself back. "I'm coming there without my kids," I told him. New way to measure blog ROI
Posted to: Blogging | Knowing yourself
June 3rd, 2008
I got an email from this guy who told me he thinks I need a friend on a farm. I think he wrote the email right after I wrote about being a pint-sized ENTJ on the estate-sized front lawn of my grandma's house. I am not sure how he knew I am fascinated with farms, [...] |
The farmer wants to start a blog with me. He wants to call it breadnbutter. I hear: me spread all over him. He hears: wheat and dairy cows. 1 day ago
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