Personality type office hours! Tomorrow!

Almost everyone is mistyped where it matters most. Not in a fun, abstract way — in the exact place that’s holding them back.

When you’re mistyped, you build a life around the wrong assumptions. You try to fix the wrong problems. You expect the wrong things from the people you love. It’s subtle, which is why even people who have studied type for years get it wrong. I wrote about personality type for a decade and still mistyped people I was closest to.

So I’m having live personality type office hours for paid subscribers.

You can come with a question about yourself, or someone you’re trying to understand. Or you can just watch, which is probably where people learn the most anyway.

What we’ll do is type in real time. You’ll see how I’m listening, what I’m ignoring, where people contradict themselves without realizing it.

Typing is about patterns, and I spent my life making lists and charts looking for patterns, and I bet you have, too. I’ll show you how to look for the pattern someone lives in, the pattern they think they live in, and the gap between the two. That gap is where change comes.

Finding the true type means seeing where you’re performing instead of being yourself. It shows where you’re expecting something from someone that they will never give you, and where you’re underestimating what actually comes naturally. I have never had someone leave this process and wish they didn’t know.

Half the value is getting typed. The other half is watching other people get typed — that’s how you actually learn to do it yourself. Once you can do it, your relationships get calmer and your decisions get faster.

If you’ve been reading my personality posts and thinking, okay, but how do I actually know — this is it.

This session is Thursday, March 19 at 5pm ET. It’s for paid subscribers to my Substack. You can join here.

I look forward to seeing you!