Twitter can save your life

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It’s safe to say that the majority of the world thinks Twitter is a waste of time. Yes, Twitter is a darling of the New York Times and frequents front pages of mainstream media. But Twitter gets coverage not because the intelligentsia loves Twitter, but because the intelligentsia hates feeling like it’s falling behind.

This post is for all the people who think Twitter is stupid but wish they didn’t. Here are five ways Twitter can save your life:

1. Twitter lets you find people like you.
The core of every career problem is actually loneliness. You don’t change jobs because you don’t have faith in yourself.You don’t ask for more money because you don’t believe in your own value. You don’t quit because you worry about not being associated with a company. Believing in ourselves is the only thing that keeps us going and if we stop believing in ourselves, we get stuck.

Twitter helps solve this problem because you can find people like you. That voice inside your head telling you that no one has your problem? Do a search. Every problem you can imagine is tweeted about somewhere. You can find someone talking about it. The most important reason to be on Twitter is to connect with people, so if one person is there, talking about the problem you have, then they want to talk with you about it.

The more people you find who are like you, the more you can connect with others and feel okay with who you are, and then you believe in yourself and you start to move on. Twitter is a live index of people and the weirdness we harbor, which is a gift to the world of loneliness.

2. Twitter solves specific problems.
You can tweet into the world, and ask for help, and someone will answer. Twitter users ask questions all the time — usually how to. “Where’s a good place to eat near the intersection of in San Francisco?” Or “What adapter do I need to run PowerPoint from my Mac into a projector?” You will get an answer in twenty seconds.

Twitter answers questions so efficiently because there is such an incredibly wide range of top-performers. There’s a directory to find anyone on Twitter, by company or title or location. This means that whatever you want to do with your life, there is someone there who can help you. And you know they want to help, because that’s why people are on Twitter — to connect with people. It’s why so many people use social media — to help others. Social media is about networking, and networking is about helping people. This means that you have millions of people waiting to help you.

But what do you need help with? It’s much harder to ask a good question than get the answer.

Twitter gives you the ability to get the help you need to get what you want. Once you’re using Twitter you have no barrier to getting what you want in your life — except you.

3. Twitter helps you find what you’re good at.
Twitter is a way to let people know what you’re doing. For most of the day, what we’re doing is not as interesting as what we’re thinking. So in the end, Twitter is sort of a window into your head: what you’re doing in your head while you’re doing nothing that’s all that interesting otherwise.

If you force yourself to start tweeting, you force yourself to think about what you’re thinking. Most of us focus on what we’re doing: our to do list, our schedule, etc. Once you focus instead on what you’re thinking, you free yourself to start connecting with people based on what you’re thinking about.

Then, you will learn the best way to communicate what you’re thinking. For some people, 140 characters in Twitter is enough. For many people, Twitter is a way to link to a widely ranging reading list and for some people, Twitter will be a gateway to their longer ideas.

You’ll learn for yourself how to best present what’s in your head. Then you can be more than just a static resume, more than just a list of your contacts. You can be a known for your ideas.

4. Twitter delivers exactly what you want to know, fast.
Twitter helps you get better information and give better information. And, in an information economy, you can’t have a more important tool than that.

Twitter is a way to curate information in a way that makes news useful to you. It used to be that the New York Times told you what was the news for that day. Later, the news of the day because so large that it would fill 10,000 New York Times every day. Or maybe every minute.

Today we cannot read all the news but we need to sort and synthesize at a decent pace, in order to stay useful and engaged in the fast-changing world around us. Twitter is a curating system. You can follow people who are good at finding the news you care about, and then you have a stream of information better than the New York Times — live, updating every minute.

You might think this is crazy, but it’s the reason why all major news organizations have a department devoted to getting the news from Twitter. That’s where news breaks first today. And the inherent crowdsourcing nature of Twitter makes it the most efficient way to tell which news people care about most.

5. Twitter makes you brave.
Maybe you think all this is stupid and misguided. But let me tell you something. I am not an early adapter. I resist new technology until I think it’s proven. I hate learning new contraptions, and I don’t even know how to program my expensive-because-it’s-programmable coffee maker. Sometimes I can’t even understand what’s going on in my own social network, Brazen Careerist.

But even with my technoskepticism, I know that you have to try Twitter. Because bravery begets bravery, and trying new things keeps you fresh and interesting, even if you are trying new things that you don’t believe you really need to try. It’s why I went to the rodeo, it’s why I worked on that chicken farm, it’s why I read car and driver magazine when I’m getting a manicure. You have to force yourself out of your comfort zone if you want to grow. (And for starters, you can follow me :)

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  1. LaneEllen
    LaneEllen says:

    Twitter has allowed me to connect with so many people in my community, meet others who do what I do, promote my band, be notified of dance events, keep up with friends I might normally never see, learn jokes, try new restaurants, get fitness tips, take advantage of local and international deals, check reviews on products, and help change the world.

    Why not?

    Lane Ellen

  2. Chris
    Chris says:

    Hi, I’m your big fan but I never post my comment on your blog before.

    Until this Twitter topic, I’ve decided to show my opinion.

    Well, I believe that Twitter or Facebook can be the gateway to many good things. I used to read about how Twitter or Facebook can promote your business or your website. I did follow the steps to create traffic to my site ( http://www.shiroinekoonline.com ) and now I’ve so many customers around the world.

    I LOVE Twitter and Facebook. I will marry them if I could. LOL

    Thank for the space.

  3. jc
    jc says:

    This is why I always love reading your blog. You always have an interesting way of articulating your thoughts. I just started a tumblr to practice expressing myself on paper.

  4. Sam S
    Sam S says:

    Hmmm.
    I’d like to share this quote from The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle):

    “Most people are in love with their particular life drama. Their story is their identity. Their ego runs their life. They have their whole sense of self invested in it. Even their – usually unsuccessful – search for an answer, a solution, or for healing becomes part of it.”

    Perhaps this chapter needs revision: “They have their whole sense of Twitter invested in it.”

  5. Maggy
    Maggy says:

    I did not realize until I had a Twitter account for almost a year that it may be the single best place to ask a question and get a quick response. With so many people searching keywords today on Twitter, it seems someone has an answer.

  6. David Geno
    David Geno says:

    I’ve tried using Twitter, it was fun for few days then I decided to stop tweeting. Most of my friends that started Tweeting are the same too. At first, they will be so serious and say it’s fun. However, after few days, I will see no updates from them.

    Anyway, after reading your post I realize that Twitter can be an important part of daily life. I know it connects us with people but I could not find the point of it until I read your first point.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Keep writing.

  7. Reno Davarro
    Reno Davarro says:

    I must admit I have actually put off joining Twitter. Call me slow and old but I just could not see the point. I joined Myspace and Facebook and thought well that’s enough I am technologically savvy now, I’m hip, I’m happening. But that little blue bird logo thingy you see everywhere I don’t know it just looked a little weird.

    I thought only people with the super star status of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore used this type of thing more than someone like me. Even my 15 yr old daughter who has her face constantly planted in her Blackberry and online told me not to worry about it. I mean I trust her she got me online and showed me who to join and who not to. Now after reading this article and especially some of the responding comments I see it now in a new light, I never realized you could do so much with twitter. Thanks to all who contributed now I think I will give it a go myself.

  8. Owen
    Owen says:

    I try with twitter but I just don’t get the point of it, I struggle to get people to follow me. I asume when you have followers this make the whole process more fun but I suppose you need that to start with?

  9. Damien
    Damien says:

    I think it all depends on what you want to pursue with Twitter. Like the post suggests, it has many uses that don’t require having lots of people follow you if at all.

    Now if you want people following you, there are ways to do this. Sure, it helps already having a name, but there are courses on how to get followed on twitter. It’s a whole “field” it itself now.

    Also I believe that if your goal it to have followers, some ways to get to this it to not focus on twitter alone but make it a piece of a global social platform strategy, which involves building some sort of network around yourself. It takes time, but countless regular people are doing well with Twitter.

  10. Hari Luker
    Hari Luker says:

    I was skeptical with Twitter, but once i set it all up i was amazed at all the like minded people there on there, and there’s my parents telling me I’m unique?

  11. John Park
    John Park says:

    I have a few accounts on twitter. I use it once in awhile to send out links to articles that might help someone. It seems that most people that are on there are marketing people. I notice a rash of people trying to sell teeth whitener. If I’m looking for something I just type a keyword in the search box. There are some interesting things on there. You can view the tweets quickly like looking at a directory.

  12. Janice Wilson
    Janice Wilson says:

    I just started using twitter and there is a real wealth of information if you are following the right people. Once you have a good group of followers you can network with them and build some good online friendships.

  13. feelsaferollershutters
    feelsaferollershutters says:

    Twitter has proven time and time againg that it really comes into ist own in a crisis.I created a twitter profile page two weeks ago. In much the same way as you might build a life-size wicker elephant, stand back and think “Well, what do I *do* with it”, I’m now standing back and thinking “Well, what do I *do* with it.”

  14. D Ramsay
    D Ramsay says:

    Does anyone really believe Ashton Kutcher is actually tweeting? Celebrities have people to tweet on their behalf. Excellent marketing ploy though, right?!

  15. John
    John says:

    I agree that Twitter has become a significant part of our lives and it has brought a new perspective to online communications but it also has its downsides. Some people are relying on it to such a point that they are being careless about the information they are releasing through twitter.

  16. Amy
    Amy says:

    I’m not so sure. It seems to me that the world of the “tweet” ain’t so sweet. What have we come to when the only way we can connect with others is through micro splatter of our thoughts, rather than engaged and stimulating (real) conversation? As one author put it, “America has become three thousand miles wide and one inch deep.” Or shall I say, “one inch tweet.” Yuck!

  17. roberto
    roberto says:

    but dont forget that twitter also has a bad effect if you not use it properly. I have a friend who got fired becase movking his boss on the twitter

  18. Crystal
    Crystal says:

    I love this article. It is so true Twitter gives you something to look forward to every day and when you are having a tough day you know you are not alone.
    I love reconnecting with people.

  19. Laura
    Laura says:

    Not sure about the title, I actually think Twitter is a “little” overrated, but must say that I do use it myself and is quite possibly the best social networking site out there, like YouTube.

    It can be great for any business to market their product and/or service on there, but it’s all down to how many followers you have, and the type of people they are that decided whether it generates your business more sales.

    I “tweet” once every few days, doing it several times of day is a waste of time, unless you REALLY have a lot of followers.

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  20. jason zadel
    jason zadel says:

    twitter is powerful and great because its free. I have seen many people jump on the bandwagon without any idea and spamming what they have been taught which is to build big list of followers and tweet your offer. That results in everyones screen filled with offers. A targeted list and rule of 5 general valuable tweets to 1 offer i believe is great advice.

  21. Tom Oxby
    Tom Oxby says:

    I love Twitter, by searching for people who also love the same passion, bicycle touring, I have been able to contact with websites with interesting information I did not know existed.

    Also I receive direct messages from people with great questions. You always learn more from people who ask questions.

    The best is it is so simple to use, for anyone even if technically challenged.

  22. Johnny Gravy
    Johnny Gravy says:

    To this day, I don’t get Twitter. There is to much noise, to much pollution and your voice simply will not be heard among all of the chatter. I have 4000 followers and how many of you think they read what I say. Twitter is a fad, yes I said it and one that was built by the media. In my eyes facebook is a vastly better avenue.

  23. Cris Rendall
    Cris Rendall says:

    I’ve been using twitter for some time now but it feels really impersonal to me. I prefer Facebook because it feels more like a group interaction. Twitter seems to me like everyone is constantly posting but no one is listening. Either way it’s just my opinion.

  24. Jon
    Jon says:

    I love social media and am an internet junkie, but I am concerned about the decline in human contact and physical exercise amongst society; especially children. Video games play a big role in this as well but I do believe there needs to be a balance that we teach and instill in our children of today.

    • Kevin Walker
      Kevin Walker says:

      Hi Jon, your comments are very interesting. Could you expand on exactly how you use Twitter to promote your business online please? I’m trying too do the same but I’m not finding it very useful at the moment but I can see the huge potential of Twitter for this purpose.

  25. nutshell
    nutshell says:

    Twitter is really hard work if you want to make a go of it. So many people have signed in and then given up interest after 5 minutes.

  26. Deimantas
    Deimantas says:

    Yes there is some trough in this post, that makes you think Twitter gives you positive side, but if you are person like me who was using twitter just for promoting some products and trying to make some money you need tones of followers just to make couple dollars. And I don’t have that much patients it will take me to much time to get that many followers. There is to many people already doing this, so everyone thinks, that this just one more spammer…

  27. Edward
    Edward says:

    Twitter has allowed me to connect with so many people in my community. Twitter’s power, both in usefulness and entertainment, is in who you follow. If you seek out intelligence, you’re going to find it. It’s there, and way more of it than you think

  28. Edward
    Edward says:

    Twitter has allowed me to connect with so many people in my community. Twitter’s power, both in usefulness and entertainment, is in who you follow. If you seek out intelligence, you’re going to find it. It’s there, and way more of it than you think.

  29. Andy
    Andy says:

    At first I couldn’t get my head around twitter, I think this is the same for a lot of people. Nowadays I find it an excellent way to follow key figures in my industry, developments, news and connect with friends. It’s definately something that grows on you.

  30. Charlie at Gain Financial Freedom Org.
    Charlie at Gain Financial Freedom Org. says:

    Penelope:

    You’re right, Twitter is a very powerful tool and if you use it right it can help you personally and in business. But, one must be cautioned that if you don’t know how to use Twitter “correctly,” you will waste your time!

    So, thanks for letting others know how Twitter can be used productively:)

    Charlie

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