Let’s say you get fired, or laid off, or you quit because after two weeks you know you’re at the worst company on the planet. In all of those cases, you will face the interview question: What happened at your last job?
Here’s the answer you should always give: “I left to do x.” And you fill in for x.
Which brings me to what you should be really focusing on when you are unemployed: Learning and growing. Because this is what you are going to talk about in job interviews.
Most people require about six months to get another job. This is a big chunk of time that you can piss away sending resumes to Monster and wondering why no one responds. But you cannot job hunt for eight hours a day. Really. You’ll go nuts. (Wait. Here’s a time-saving job hunt tip from my mom.)
So spend the time creating projects for yourself and executing on them. This is good for you mentally – because you are doing something meaningful with your time and that will keep your spirits up.
But this is also good for you in your job hunt. Because when you talk about why you left the last company, you spin it in a positive light by talking about how you are excited about doing what you are doing. Your interview should include you telling a good story about focused personal growth, and no one will get stuck on why you left your last job. Here are five ways to set that story up:
1. Create a job for yourself. These projects can be wide ranging, but they have to show that you are driven, ambitious and focused. During one stint of unemployment, I worked for free for my boyfriend’s company for a couple of hours a day. That way I didn’t actually have a gap in my resume; a resume doesn’t show part-time or full-time and it doesn’t show pay or no pay. So volunteering at my boyfriend’s company for a couple of hours a day ended up looking like a full-time job on my resume.
2. Focus on ambition and execution and not so much on work per se. Another time I got laid off I spent my days learning to swing dance. I took one or two lessons a day and practiced at night, and after my six months of job hunting, I was good enough to teach dancing just off Broadway. I didn’t put that on my resume, but when people asked me why I left my job, I told them about how I gave myself time to fulfill lofty goals as a swing dancer.
3. Start a blog about the industry you want to go into. Blogging is a great way to keep up in your industry, network without looking desperate, and leverage the fact that you have more time on your hands that people who have jobs. Everyone who is unemployed should be blogging as a way to get their next job. Put your ideas out into the world and connect with people that way. This is why you want to be hired, right? For your ideas. So show them. The reason that people who blog have great careers is that bloggers are always thinking about issues in their industry. Show that side of yourself to people. Blogging takes a lot of time, sure. Bu you have a lot of time. So use it. Here’s my guide for how to start a blog.
4. Start a company. Do you have a company idea? Try it now. During unemployment. There’s nothing stopping you. You have time, and you can try ideas to see which one sticks. Also, whether or not your company does well, you’ll be able to talk about it in an interview as a huge learning moment that will deflect from any problems at your last job. The company that never got out of your parent’s basement can sit on your resume as professionally as a stint in the Fortune 500. It’s all about how you write the bullet points: talk about accomplishments and learning.
5. Practice talking about yourself with everyone. High performers practice for interviews. So now you know what you’re aiming for, but you need to talk about it with everyone – parties, at the gym, on the phone with friends. When they ask how you’re doing, talk about what you’re doing like you are in the job interview. And the good news is that the better you get at talking like that, the more you will actually believe your story, the story that being unemployed is lucky because you have learning opportunities.
What’s important to remember here is that no one can tell you what experience you can gain and what you can’t. You don’t need a job in order to learn cool stuff and be on cool projects. You control what you do with your time and you can make it useful. Talk about that. There is no reason to talk about why the last job didn’t work when you can talk about the great things that leaving opened up to you.









Maybe it's because I'm doing exactly what you write here, but this is some of the best advice you've given. Got the pink slip at Thanksgiving and it's been an awesome ride since then. Call it the smack upside the head that I needed to go out and start doing incredible work rather than let my professional life simply become an exercise in sleepwalking. Now, I'm working on building the online community for JobAngels.org and cultivating other partnerships that will help organizations change the way they think of relating to the employees and customers.
Thanks for being who you are and inspiring folks to get off their rears and start living the work they're meant to do.
Cheers!
Posted by Chris Bailey on 03/06/2009 at 02:05pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Swing dancing was the first thing I thought about. My wife & kids don't need food or a house. Job HA who needs one, I MUST swing dance!
Posted by Richard on 03/16/2009 at 06:16pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Swing dancing. That one did not enter my consideration set when I was laid off!
I think the best time to start using social networking tools, whether that's blogging or Twitter or whatever, is long before you need them to help you. Start helping others and adding value with these tools first. Then, should you need to leverage them to get value back, you'll be dealing from a position of greater strength, with a growing network and some equity already in place. Start yesterday.
Posted by Matt Tillotson on 03/06/2009 at 02:11pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Although I agree with this post in essence and believe wholeheartedly that finding a project or volunteer work is THE way to go during a job search, I disagree with the way that you seem to suggest spinning those experiences. Candidates should be extremely cautious about talking up these projects too much — if they get hired on an oversell, it could make for an incredibly awkward situation. They need to show that they took initiative, remained active, and learned and accomplished new things, but they should not pretend to have gained skills UNLESS they have actually gained the skills.
P.S. Your poll needs to be updated
P.P.S. Would you like me to write your polls?
Posted by Angie on 03/06/2009 at 02:16pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Yes. I would like you to write a poll. Thank you. Please send it to penelope@penelopetrunk.com. And please be interesting.
Here's my problem with the poll. I think it's so fake to put up a poll that I am not genuinely curious about. But all the things I'm curious about don't seem to fit into poll format.
Blah. Help.
Penelope
Posted by Penelope Trunk on 03/06/2009 at 02:20pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Oh hey, I was laid-off today, so this is just the entry I needed today.
Posted by MissPinkKate on 03/06/2009 at 02:16pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Wow, I was laid off yesterday as well. It's amazing to see how many people are out of work. I'm trying to decide which avenue I want to pursue now that I have an open schedule. Thanks for the great advice!
Posted by amanda on 11/14/2009 at 08:48pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Maybe your new poll should be 'what do YOU do when you're unemployed?'
Here are mine:
1. Lose weight. Yes, really. All those things you gripe about not having time to do when you have a full-time job, like exercising and eating right, you have plenty of time to do now. Bonus: confidence boost and better presentation that will pay off in interviews.
2. Forget starting a blog about the industry you want to get into. Go get an internship. I was interested in the music industry, so got in touch with a local record label and asked them for an internship. (I was in my 30s.) Because of my age and experience, I definitely stood out from all the college kids. And then they hired me. Moral: don't sit around and think about stuff when you can actually do stuff.
3. Indulge in a hobby. This is somewhat similar to your "ambition" point above, but I mean a real hobby, not necessarily something that will earn you a living. A while ago, between jobs, I picked up pottery painting. I loved it so much, I ended up getting a part-time job at the studio just to have painting time. Met a lot of interesting people at the studio, too. You never know where life will lead, so follow ALL avenues, not just vocational ones.
4. Volunteer. Do something for charity. Now that you've got a little downtime, it's a good time to give back. You never know when you or someone you care about will need to be on the receiving end. Pay it forward.
5. Do nothing. For god's sake, get some rest while you can. Chances are your unemployment, even in These Tough Economic Times [tm], willbe shorter than you think. Sleep. Veg out. Work on your tan. Take the vacation you never took. Go somewhere you've never been. Enjoy yourself a little.
Posted by Andrea on 03/06/2009 at 02:57pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
#2) Internship – I applied to a number of companies for internships, both advertised and cold-calling, and was told that there are tax obstacles to taking on an intern who is not a F/T college student. Does it vary by state (I am in MA)? It's virtually impossible to get an entry level job in the industry I want without an internship.
Posted by Allison on 03/06/2009 at 03:35pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Hey Allison – I'm in MA too, so apparently it's possible to do it. It might depend on the # of hours they have you work, not sure. They do realize they don't have to pay you, right? :)
Posted by Andrea on 03/06/2009 at 04:03pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Yeah, that's how I tried to sell myself, as unpaid labor! I wonder if it had to do with the size of the companies (<25 employees), or maybe they get a tax credit for college students. Thank you for replying, an internship is definitely still something I would do (I just got a job but it's not in the field I want).
Posted by Allison on 2009-03-06 16:28:12 | (Comments wont nest below this level)
It is possible to get an internship without being a college student. Some companies are interested in f/t students because they are not required by law to pay them for their time. Perhaps this is the reason for your rejection? Maybe approach the company suggesting a volunteer internship or experience where you can learn about the industry and infuse your expertise into the organization.
Posted by Heather Maietta on 2009-03-07 10:09:02 | (Comments wont nest below this level)
You have lived one of the coolest lives. I love reading your stories about your past risks, adventures and successes. I also appreciate how honest you are about your failures and missteps. This post in particular was really inspiring to me.
I'm working now, but I'm using every spare minute I have to build my own company and pursue my personal dreams. The around-the-clock schedule means less time for things such as obsessively watching the Food Network and leafing through magazines, but those are things I should probably do without anyways!
Thank you, Penelope.
Posted by Dallas on 03/06/2009 at 03:08pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
It has taken me exactly six months to find a job. I start my new job on Monday. While unemployed I worked on writing projects, started a blog, and traveled. I would talk about those things during job interviews. My experience was that interviewers understood how scarce jobs are right now and were not put off my the gap in my employment history, but interested in what I could do for myself when left to my own devices. The best thing is that I am coming to see that the blogging, writing etc. is my "real" job, which I will continue to do while I'm working and after I've moved on from this position (of course I'm not telling my employer that).
And thanks for changing back to a serif font. Much better.
Posted by Allison on 03/06/2009 at 03:25pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Thanks Penelope! All wonderful suggestions for that weird transition time…especially when still figuring out what to do with my life. I'm planning on volunteering at various places to get a better idea of what suits me, as well as explore hobbies I haven't had time to while working (all after taking a nice, long vacation!).
Posted by Megan on 03/06/2009 at 03:52pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is good advice about not taking a 100% onslaught to Monster.com and job boards, and more so letting the game come to you.
American life is changing rapidly and it has to be accepted. If you are among the lucky people that dont have change forced on you, it's a nice feeling. But there will be millions that are foreced to find new and totaly different priorities rather than living for the old ones.
Make the most of change if at all possible because freedom can come in unexpected ways.
Posted by gregcnorca*AT*aim on 03/06/2009 at 04:07pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I'm a freelancer writer, so I'm never unemployed, exactly, but there's certainly a feast or famine nature to freelancing. A couple of years ago, right after getting married and spending a ton of money on a fabulous honeymoon trip, I unexpectedly lost my biggest client. For about four months I had almost no billable work.
It was a bit nerve-wracking, financially, but to keep myself occupied, I started devoting several hours each day to something I've always wanted to do–I started my blog and put together a book proposal. Now, when I look back, I'm so glad that client decided they couldn't afford me any more. That time was like a gift–one that's changed my life in really significant ways.
Posted by Kristin T. (@kt_writes) on 03/06/2009 at 04:11pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I have a good list of things I'd like to be doing now that I'm unemployed. But lately I just can't seem to work up the motivation to change out of my pajamas and get off the computer. I'm becoming stuck because of boredom and a wide-open schedule. The only time I get things done is on days when I have some other activity scheduled.
Posted by Anca on 03/06/2009 at 04:49pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Job, schmob. I like what Marshall McLuhan said in 1967:
"You can't have jobs. You can only have roles."
"A job is a specialist activity with a fixed boundary… So jobs are out."
Posted by Paula Thornton on 03/06/2009 at 06:11pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Penelope add two more bullets – 6 & 7:
6. temp – thats right temping is a way to try different things, keep your skills up, and be positioned to go f/t if things get better.
7. Volunteer – you sort of covered this but expand on what you do, how you give back…it's also a great way to meet people in different fields that could be your next introduction to the elusive job!
Finally hit the gym or the road to stay in shape and reduce stress…if you don't have $ for an expensive place, put on a pair of sneakers and walk or jog, bicycle, use the old treadmill in the basement, hit the tennis courts…whatever you can do….finding a job takes energy, and you need to look your best and have the energy for a marathon vs a sprint (not just your clothes, or make up but your physical being)…
P, sorry if I am a broken record on this but as the head of HR for a major corp I talk to tons of people looking for work and I know what makes a difference…
Hope this helps someone in their journey!!!
M
Posted by Mark F.. on 03/06/2009 at 09:37pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is a great post – I haven't been unemployed in 15 years (crosses fingers) but I still have regrets over the time I wasted when I was unemployed before that time. And what a horrible interviewee I was – just awful – no wonder I couldn't get a job.
Posted by ABCs of Investing on 03/07/2009 at 12:35am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Very useful post. Thank you. It was gratifying to see that I'd followed these suggestions, although I have to work on practicing the interview part while in conversations. Somehow I have to get past the idea that starting my own craft/vermicomposting business is not legitimate enough to promote. Depending on how I present it, people do show interest. Starting a blog, a homebased business and developing a product were all huge learning curves and required the time I had available after I quit my job in July. Now these projects have some momentum and a bit of a routine, which is great, since I'm slowly getting parttime work in my field. The time off rejuvenated my energy and interest for my work, and I still get to do my projects.
Posted by Robyn on 03/07/2009 at 09:10am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is good advice. I was laid off in November and spent December in a continuous wave of panic. In January, I got contract work that may soon lead to a full time position. I haven't spent my time as wisely as I could have.
I have gotten really good at being interviewed – I used to get really nervous and my lips would stick to my teeth. My anxiety level is definitely tied to how much I would like to do the job for which I'm interviewing. I think since I have not gotten to interview for jobs I would really enjoy, I've been much more relaxed.
Posted by rainie on 03/07/2009 at 09:38am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is a genuinely helpful post Penelope. I'm certain it will encourage a lot of unemployed people.
I must admit I have mixed feelings about a lot of your other stuff, particularly when you're mean spirited (e.g. the Tim Ferriss post), but you really nailed it with this one.
Posted by 8020 Financial on 03/07/2009 at 09:46am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Informational interviewing or field research is another great way to make use of your time. You are able to have a detailed, focused conversation with a person in your industry of interest, it allows you to gain visibility with people who have the power to hire you, and it is a great way to get out of the house, which we all know is terribly difficult when you're unemployed. Most employers are enthusiastic about informational interivewing because they can essentially talk about themselves the whole time, and who doesn't enjoy that, right!
Posted by Heather Maietta on 03/07/2009 at 10:14am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Great article, very positive and focused.
Posted by John on 03/07/2009 at 10:25am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Awesome! Love that post.
I always encourage my (career coaching) clients to do things that don't involve job hunting. Most think I'm bonkers at first but soon come round… thanks for the backup!
Posted by Marianne on 03/07/2009 at 10:41am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is why people love you (and love to take shots at you) – practical, progressive and inspiring advice. (And written just for me, it would seem.) I have already started the blog, and I'm already researching my business. For those who find themselves un- or underemployed, success will be determined by how they spent their time.
Posted by eliz on 03/07/2009 at 02:13pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is one of your best posts ever. Insight like this is the reason I always come back. Most people just don't think through things, and won't allow themselves to be honest. This IS the way it works.
Is it possible for you to post a spin on this with tips on ways to keep up with all of these important skill and image boosters when you have no time because you are scrambling at a job that, although it pays the bills, adds nothing special to your resume? It's easy to say, 'I'm just lucky to have a job," but I can feel professional opportunities slipping away one exhausted night and missed networking event at a time.
Posted by Liz on 03/07/2009 at 07:41pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I think another point is get in touch with old friends, family, or make new friends and build up a support system. As someone who has been unemployed for quite some time and single and pet free it's very lonely spending days upon days in front of a computer, or in bed as someone else mentioned. Even networking for work, you forget how to be friends with people. I realized quickly that I need social interaction…even if it's just a phone conversation and someone to talk out loud to everyday! Some days I want to panic and fret about not having a job, and I need to hear from someone else that I need to chill because life inside my head is much more insane than reality.
I would love a post on how to job search on the job boards and success stories of people who've actually found a job on monster/careerbuilder/yahoo jobs/indeed/beyond….etc etc…So many times I have visited these sites to be faced with 50 sham or shady jobs to every 1 "normal" job posting. I particularly am discouraged by the job postings that require the jobsearcher to visit another site that is fee based. An example, PR Crossing or the plethora of direct marketing and telemarketing job postings. Why do they not have their own category? Craigslist is user monitored so many of the bad job postings get flagged, but what about the aforementioned sites? Who regulates these postings? And how is applying through these sites more effective or not as effective as dealing directly with the company or HR department? Not really complaining, just a frequent thought in my head. Thanks!
Posted by geri on 03/07/2009 at 08:21pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Great post with lots of totally practical advice.
I'm working through a slow search process and agree that 8hrs a day searching on the big job boards is very draining.
I learned to expand my network by doing a couple of small, free assignments for someone who was starting a very interesting company. There was no full time role for my skill set but I managed to tap in to the CEO's network and 3 months later I'm getting regular networking meetings as a result of the relationship.
I agree that a job search is unfortunately a slow process and I'm not there with an offer yet, but I really think its about accepting that it will take time and developing any type of productive activities in the interim.
Posted by Jim B on 03/07/2009 at 09:09pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I enjoy reading your blog even more now because you used the word "piss," as in "piss away." You gave me a laugh, and you give us all a nice dose of realism.
Posted by Craig on 03/07/2009 at 10:24pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I LOVE the idea of launching a project.In my own blog and book, I've written about how to increase your A Player status when you're between jobs, and I always recommend assigning yourself a white paper on some aspect of your profession or industry. This way not only are you keeping your brain in good working order from the exercise, but having a white paper project also gives you a legitimate reason to reach out to people you'd love to meet in order to interview them.
Your gap-time is a precious opportunity to grow yourself beyond your past job description. I don't agree, however, that you soft-shoe yourself around the issue of being laid off. If you have been laid off and must now address that issue with a potential hiring manager, be real about it. Keep your head held high. This is the era of the no-fault layoff, and any hiring manager who would look down at you for having been let go is someone who doesn't deserve you. Better you should know *before* you say yes to a job offer that that person has a screw loose!
Fab blog Penelope!! Would love to connect with you!
Posted by Martha Finney on 03/08/2009 at 12:42am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Excellent post, especially like the mention that job hunting for 8 hours a day will make you go nuts. When I talk with candidates it is good to hear that they have pursued other interests while unemployed and your idea of volunteering time to prevent gaps in your resume is excellent advice.
I had a candidate that who spent his time off getting scuba certification and being a scuba instructor; which he put on his resume. He didn't get the job because he didn't keep his business skills up to date while doing scuba instruction. I applauded him for being active but then suggested that he balance his time between personal passions and maintaining marketable skills in his chosen industry.
Again really liked this post!
Posted by Jeffrey on 03/08/2009 at 09:33pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
LOVE the tip from your mom!
Posted by Annie Pazoo on 03/08/2009 at 10:19pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Thank you! This is a fantastic post. I am a free-lance writer who's had some downtime and I started teaching classes on journal writing. It's great for developing public speaking skills for me and a public service for others. I also highly recommend Toastmasters as a place to develop professional public speaking skills in a warm and supportive setting for an extremely reasonable price.
Posted by Alexandra on 03/08/2009 at 10:34pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Excellent post — the part about working at a part-time job for no pay was particularly good. I never thought about it, but having something to fill in that gap with will definitely set you aside from the other applicants. Volunteering can do a similar job.
After I got laid off, I found that http://www.freeagentnet.com was a good place to get started figuring out what to do with myself. Most of the sites online cater to either job hunting or hard-core networking, but this is the only one designed as a place for unemployed people to go to figure out what to do with themselves during the unemployment time. It's not a substitute for something like like http://www.linkedin.com, but rather, an additional place where you can meet people more informally and swap tips, and stuff.
I'm hoping that my time in the [figurative] unemployment line isn't too long, but your tips are great in the meantime!
Posted by Andrew on 03/09/2009 at 01:03am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Wow: a lot of the reasons I was really excited about being laid off are on your list. So I'm glad to see that I'm on the right track! Thanks for the boost in confidence! (and PS: I love swing dancing!)
Posted by Lorraine on 03/09/2009 at 10:34am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is very useful information. I'd love to hear your thoughts on what to do if you are laid off…and have a small child/children at home. For me (and many others, I imagine), being laid off would likely mean not being able to afford my full-time babysitter anymore. I'm not sure that my next career is likely to have to do with full-time childcare, but being home with a toddler all day doesn't leave a lot of opportunity for much else.
Thoughts?
Posted by Sarah on 03/09/2009 at 11:47am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Good question, Sarah! Just what I was wondering as well! Most of the advice re: job hunting seems geared for those who are not–either by choice or by necessity/circumstance–primary caregivers of children (and I guess this could be the case for caregivers of adults, too).
It's really hard to network your way into a job, or find a job in any other way, when you're home with an infant and 2 preschoolers (who need constant attention/supervision, sometimes don't nap, or don't nap at the same time–which leaves you no kid-free time to devote to a job search–and continually interrupt job-hunting efforts) and you:
a) don't have friends or relatives available to babysit
b) don't have $ to hire a babysitter or even a mommy's helper, let alone pay for hours at a daycare center
c) don't have a car because your husband has the family car to get to and from work, as he can't take public transportation, and works hours that make carpooling difficult; and if there's no $ for a sitter, there's no $ for another car!
and
d) can't really take public transportation. (Ever try to ride a bus with more than 1 child (younger than 5), without car seats or even seat belts?)
I'd like to see a blog post or article addressing THESE issues!
Posted by Robin on 03/11/2009 at 09:48pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I think there are some cost in this "5 Things"..I'm not being critical of your post because I'm unemployed right now, but I used to be an accountant & have my bachelors in accounting too. So my accounting side is coming out.
1. Create a job for yourself.
Yea not really many costs here.. But it depends what you do. Sounds like this could be retitled to: Volunteering.
2. Focus on ambition and execution and not so much on work per se.
This makes sense but in your example it mentions a dance lesson. Well that cots money unless you know the instructor and they give it to you free.
3. Start a blog about the industry you want to go into.
Yes you can do you own blog for free with blogger and others. However you need a computer & the internet. Both cost money. Unless you use the computer & internet at a local library. Yes, some businesses has free wifi, but you still need a computer to be able to use the internet.
4. Start a company. There are tons of costs to starting up your new company, but it depends on what type of good or service you are going to develop. Should a list the great list of costs with this?
5. Practice talking about yourself with everyone. This is actually probably the only one free unless you have a phone. It's only free when you talk face to face..
Posted by Nick Schmidt on 03/09/2009 at 06:40pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Yeah, I was thinking of starting a Texas Holdem Company. I'd play Texas Holdem at the local casino and then try and incorporate the logic I see used into a software program. Then use the software program for training purposes.
Posted by bilbo on 03/09/2009 at 06:53pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
"But you cannot job hunt for eight hours a day. Really."
I must respectfully disagree. When you have a job, you are working for someone else. When you don't have a job you are working for yourself. Why should you put out less than a 100% effort for yourself?
No, you won't spend forty hours a week mailing resumes and going to interviews. You will also dig up information on potential employers on the web and/or at your local library. You will network — not just through LinkedIn or the teeny-bopper web sites, but at real, live meetings of your professional association. (You don't belong to one? Why on earth don't you?)
In my case, I was once unemployed for a seven week stretch that seemed like an eternity. My local section of the American Chemical Society was an invaluable source of information and job-hunting resources. I met people and learned of job openings I never would have found any other way.
If you take a part-time job, fill the rest of the forty or fifty hour week with your hunt for a full-time job.
So yes, you can job-hunt 8 or 9 or 10 hours a day. Don't give yourself less than a full effort.
Posted by Jim C. on 03/09/2009 at 10:51pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
thanks for the article, very interesting.
Posted by Niagra Seneca on 03/10/2009 at 05:11pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Hello
This is mostly good advice, but as mentioned, much of the activity takes money–dance classes, commuting costs for all that volunteering, etc. Unpaid internships are for the rich and the upper middle class- not working class folk. In my case, I do not have any income- no unemployment insurance, any cash, any car, or much more than a sofa at a friend's house and an internet connection.
Of course I am doing more than just posting resumes–also doing some online and offline networking. Job searching is a slow, soul-destroying process for me because I do not have the contacts that the middle class and wealthy do. The job search is nothing close to a meritocracy- it keeps the wealthy and connected employed, and that's about it. Try keeping your mood up when you can't pay your bills or "enjoy" your unemployment. People with money call it a 'sabbatical'.
Posted by some guy on 03/10/2009 at 05:26pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
There's a lot to what you are saying. Actually, unpaid internships are for people who can sponge off their parents as well as for the rich.
But something in the way you worded your comments suggests there's a load of self-pity there too. People at interviews can sense that, and they cross your name off the list.
Posted by Jim C. on 03/11/2009 at 07:54am | permalink | Reply to this comment
At the moment I'm about in the same boat you are. Hardly any money, sleeping on a sofa with an internet connection, etc. But I found a couple ways to get around:
1. Is there a bus system where you are? Buses suck and take twice as long to get you places as a car, but mine costs only a buck per ride.
2. Mooch off of friends. Do any of your friends have cars who would be willing to help you out, take you to volunteer or network? If they're looking for jobs too, you can form a kind of "job search carpool".
Posted by Erica Stratton on 03/11/2009 at 09:57am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is great advice, because when someone gets fired they sometimes panic and jump at the next job that comes along just to fill their time. Just like during after the breakup of a relationship, it takes some time to move on from a job loss! The power of small is what works in a situation like this. Take some time, do some things to fill your time so you aren't OBSESSED with a new job, and you will have an easier time finding the right job next time around.
Posted by Cherie on 03/10/2009 at 10:51pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I've often had folks tell me they're going to take a lesser role. I urge them to take a more junior role in a different career. You'll learn new skills but can call it a break and step back into your current career at the same level more easily. One time that I was unemployed I worked at a gift shop. It barely paid what unemployment paid, but it was worth it. I had always dreamed of opening a gift shop. Working there got it out of my system. (I loved the shop and the Saturday hustle, didn't like the Tuesday dusting and cardboard boxes.)
I took some of your earlier advice and started the blog. I have so many ideas yet find myself hesitating to get them out there. It really is work. I needed that push. Thanks.
Posted by Maryellen on 03/11/2009 at 04:28am | permalink | Reply to this comment
It's like you're talking to me =) I had wanted to get into the ergonomics business for a while. Company downsizing gave me the opportunity to focus on it full time with an ecommerce store. It's been very exciting as my learning curve was resuscitated from it's flat line state at my old job. I already knew a lot about ergonomics, but the business aspect of finding partners and putting everything together has been intensely enjoyable.
As I do still plan on taking another regular job at some point, I would be interested to hear more details about how to list such an experience on your resume in a way that doesn't oversell it, but still makes it look legitimate.
Posted by Brian on 03/14/2009 at 09:47pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Wow, what great suggestions, thanks Penelope.
I thought you might be interested to know that we've started a new show at SmallPlateRadio.com called Job Search Radio. Each Monday at 1pm eastern (11am pacific), we feature guests who are experts in the art and science of finding a job. Listen live and participate by submitting questions or download the podcast for listening later or on the go.
http://www.smallplateradio.com/014/
Posted by Daniel Durazo on 03/17/2009 at 04:00pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
If you have an internet connection you can work writing articles for internet marketers. Look on elance, craigslist etc.
Posted by Ellen on 03/23/2009 at 11:55pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Penelope, i swear you have the best blog i have ever read. It has seriously changed my life for the better, for that I thank you
Posted by Joel on 03/24/2009 at 01:47am | permalink | Reply to this comment
I agree with the comment above. I found you through a link one day. For someone who just survived our company's first wave of layoffs and had to take ta 10% pay cut, you have now become a daily "must." I visit you every day, along with Freelance Folder and FreelanceSwitch. Thanks and please keep up the great work.
Posted by Craig on 03/24/2009 at 04:35am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Or make a sabbatical out of your time off so you'll have "good stories" and "personal growth" to talk about. Or work for a company that will pay for your next sabbatical – like McDonalds. http://tiny.cc/rx39l. Thanks, Penelope. I think you're amazing.
Posted by Elizabeth Pagano on 03/24/2009 at 08:25am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Creating a Job is easier said than done. Some People have families and need to pay rent and other everyday stuff. So what are they doing when they got laid off??? One of my friends used a Video Resume and had never gotten a Job faster than using that kind of feature. There are several web sites out there like http://www.mayomann.com or http://www.visualcv,com which allow to add that feature. As far as his experience goes…. that rocks.
What do you think?? A go or a no?
Posted by Mike Miller on 03/25/2009 at 12:46am | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is great but also remember that there is extra down time, I am doing all of the five things you mention but I spend some of my time giving back to the community by volunteering.
Posted by Daniel on 03/25/2009 at 07:31pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
ugh – this post is like a kick in the butt. I did start a blog about a month ago and also did pick up some other temporary work and skills, but being basically unemployed for over a year and a half has left me totally depressed and 20 pounds heavier. How do I get back on the bandwagon? I am a highly educated woman whose skills were more useful for Washington, DC, but had to move to another city for personal reasons. No one here gives a fig about my previous experience or knows what to do with it. I feel like I have lost some of the most precious work years of my life (no kids, under 30). Help!!
Posted by tanya on 03/26/2009 at 11:42am | permalink | Reply to this comment
I am currently trying to update my resume. I have hit a stumbling block and not sure what to do. I live in Alexandria, Virginia and not worked in two years. The last job I had was working as a Freelance Subcontractor at Voice of America. I was only paid for two months but had quite a bit of training. The responsibities I had were operating cameras either remotely or manually in a studio there. I was paid by a company called ITI. I am not sure how to put this on my resume, whether to put it as just Freelance Subcontractor or add the ITI part to it as well. Another thing, do I list the months I was paid or do I include the months I was trained as well. I never can remember. The time in between I plan on telling about my activity in my local church and volunteering I have done at a local public radio station near my apartment. Any advice would be a great help. Thanks.
Posted by Sarah on 04/09/2009 at 10:22am | permalink | Reply to this comment
@Sarah – I do resumes as a side business. If you want, I invite you to contact me here: cardimon720@yahoo.com. Perhaps I can help.
Posted by Craig on 04/11/2009 at 09:25pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
This List really sung out to me, I’m in the situation at the moment where I might lose my job, but I won’t find out for sure until December 9th, Have no savings and no extra money. But on the bright side, I hate my job more than anything, I’m going to have to move back to my birth town as it’s cheaper, but I’ll get to see my friends and family everyday. And overall I’ll be more happy and relaxed
Posted by play online baccarat on 05/04/2009 at 04:59am | permalink | Reply to this comment
wow , that was some great things to do during unemployment.
surely i will adopt few of them too.
Posted by Gaurav on 05/13/2009 at 07:24am | permalink | Reply to this comment
well during this recession time , when so many people have lost their jobs , it would be good for them
Posted by Mathew on 05/13/2009 at 07:48pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
well same situation i am facing and thus find out your post very helpful.
Posted by Ricky on 05/15/2009 at 05:08am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I lost my job last year. At first I was calm and enjoying the freedom of unemployment. I enrolled in a couple a college courses and did an internship. I thought that the time I had off was a God send and I was going to be able to take the time to reinvent myself. Well after the classes and the internship ended, my security blanket was gone. It dawned on me…I STILL DON"T HAVE A FREAKING JOB. A year and some odd months later…still searching. With two degrees under my belt, no children, mid twenties…I thought I would be an employers dream. NOPE! Last night I was going through my monthly freak out about being unemployed. Today I told myself I would start a new project and let go of the stress. That is when I stumbled across your article. Thank you for posting this advice! Can you suggest any blog sites for beginners?
Posted by DeAndra Smith on 05/17/2009 at 01:21am | permalink | Reply to this comment
I agree with all that has been said. I need to focus on building my skills and maybe do some volunteering or some sort of classes. Unfortunately, I don't know what planet you people are from, but unemployment for me means NO MONEY! No money means I don't eat, I don't pay rent (thus I have nowhere to live), and I sure as hell don't start up a new hobby ($$). I wonder what your thoughts are about interning so far out of college. It has been three years since I graduated. It seems like most internships want current students, or at least recent grads. I agree with above comments. If I had rich parents who paid my rent I would intern my ass off, and probably not be in this situation in the first place. What if we re-framed the conversation to address being unemployed AND poor.
Posted by Doug P. on 05/17/2009 at 11:21am | permalink | Reply to this comment
well thank you , it may not be useful for me currently , but i know many of my friends , and i will surely recommend your post to them.
Posted by Jake on 05/17/2009 at 12:04pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I thought this was an interesting take on unemployment- so refreshing to hear that you are not expected to be job-searching 24/7 like some sites seem to imply. But I take the other posters' point about money. I have been lucky to be able to live off savings, but for most people a paid job is absolutely necessary in order to get rent, food, childcare etc. Thats why I think all this business of needing to network, intern for free or do lots informational interviews in order to get a job is really unfair. A job is not a luxury, its a necessity!
Posted by Unemployed As Well on 05/18/2009 at 11:58am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Check out the Random Thoughts of Unemployment blog. http://dtanae.blogspot.com I started my blog right after I read this article. It was refreshing to read and take a different approach to my current situation. I have been fortunate enough to been unemployed since January of last year and still have a roof over my head. It is hard to say the least but I make do. I'm 26 college educated with experience but I am fighting for the same jobs as other displaced workers, retirees and recent grads. I thank Penelope for post this article but I want to see how someone in my shoes is coping. (unemployed that is) Thats why I started my site to give a voice and real life situations of the unemployed. Check out the blog and thanks P. for writing this article and giving me something to work towards.
Posted by DeAndra Smith on 05/18/2009 at 01:02pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
well when so much people are losing their jobs , so this article might prove helpful to many.
Posted by Russel on 05/20/2009 at 06:29am | permalink | Reply to this comment
thanks for your sincere thoughts. I live in a town with nearly 20% unemployment, including many family members.
Posted by Jonathan on 06/05/2009 at 11:30pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
that was an awesome article and at the very right time.
Posted by Jakem on 05/24/2009 at 02:30am | permalink | Reply to this comment
great article on mentors.
really liked it.
Posted by Gerrard on 05/26/2009 at 11:19am | permalink | Reply to this comment
a right article at the very right time.
Posted by Bent on 06/03/2009 at 03:27am | permalink | Reply to this comment
well unemployment today is a serious concern and this article cam at a good time.
Posted by Kattins on 06/03/2009 at 06:10am | permalink | Reply to this comment
well i am facing the same problem and found your article totally apt.
Posted by Randy on 06/04/2009 at 04:03am | permalink | Reply to this comment
well i would try these all during my current employment.
Posted by Brackster on 06/05/2009 at 05:48am | permalink | Reply to this comment
perfect article, many thanks
Posted by Web Hosting on 06/05/2009 at 09:00pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
totally agree . these are the best 5 things that an unemployed can do
Posted by Horgan on 06/14/2009 at 12:51am | permalink | Reply to this comment
excellent post , many would find this useful at this point of time.
Posted by derik on 06/14/2009 at 08:08am | permalink | Reply to this comment
I was laid off in March. Since then I have been trying my best to interview as much as possible. I landed a very good verbal offer. The potential employer told me about the benefits and the salary. I gave 5 references which I called them up individually and felt good with what they have to say about me. But the potential employer insisted to have one more reference from my first job. I gave the reference information to my recruiter and I actually thought the reference will mention good things about me b/c we had a good working relationship. It turned out to be the worst situation. As a result, the offer was revoked. I am back to square one. The people who know the reference were just as shocked as me. I called the reference twice and left her a voicemail. She never return my calls or emails. Obviously her conscience tells her she did something that was morally wrong.
My point is to put yourself in another person's shoes. What you tell the employers matters just as much as the interview. Unless your previous employee did something outrageously wrong, how can you crush someone's chance of survival just like that? What happens if the person has to pay for mortgage, a child in serious medical condition, aging parents, or even just your own medical problems? Where is the moral and basic humanity? Just imagine if it is you in this situation.
These days some employers are so picky that I think it's insane. They were looking to hear specific things about this person. But realistically when you call up references, how many of them actually take it that seriously? Most references will think as long as they mention positive things, brush things on the surface, and nothing negative it should be fine. Plus who's got the time to think and dig through everything this person did? So for employers, be realistic! For references, be careful of what you say and be more conscious of this tough market. Just by you spending a couple of more minutes out of your schedule can change someone's life! What goes around, what comes around.
Posted by Kay on 06/16/2009 at 05:25pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Just think about the economic effect of putting an extra person on payroll. It stimulates spending, it increases payroll tax, the government spends less on unemployent and refocuses the budget on other area such as education, and health care. It's a win-win situation for all.
Posted by Kay on 06/16/2009 at 05:31pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Update your resume !!!
Check job websites for helpful hints on preparing resumes that get results ! You may need to create several different resumes to serve your different needs. Proofread carefully and make sure to print the final copy on high-quality, heavy bond paper.
Posted by makarska on 06/23/2009 at 05:36pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I am 50 year old and have never been without a job. I have a strategy that works every single time, but it is not without a catch… you have to want to be the best at something. Not just good, the best. A smart employer won't turn someone away if they are driven to succeed.
If I found myself without a job, I would decide what I wanted to do, pick one essential aspect of the job and get very, very good at it. Find a small company that you want to work for, a company where you can actually stop in and speak with the person doing the hiring.
Tell the person what you are doing, explain that you really want to be the very best at this job, and make this simple offer… " I will work for you for 2 weeks. If, at the end of that time, you don't think I have the potential to be one of your best employees, then I will quit and you will owe me nothing. If you want to keep me, then pay me for the first 2 weeks and we can go from there."
Thew worst thing that can happen is that you have put yourself in a position to learn.
Posted by Roy Dixon on 07/05/2009 at 10:17pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Its essential to do what you do best.. If you are in position to choose, of course..
You should start thinking about what type of work appeals to you. The more clearly you know where your interests lie, what you enjoy, what your talents are and which skills and strengths you want to use in your working life, the easier it is to recognize opportunities that suit you.
Posted by Dubrovnik apartments on 07/08/2009 at 03:10am | permalink | Reply to this comment
totally agree
Posted by Jer on 07/09/2009 at 07:56pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I did all of this and started a blog called Random Thoughts of Unemployment! My fellow displaced workers please check out my site and show support! Tell me what you think, if you like it or not! This is my first time making a blog! http://dtanae.blogspot.com
Posted by DeAndra Smith on 07/12/2009 at 12:22pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
ya that helped me a lot
Posted by Ray on 07/13/2009 at 12:07pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
fantastic , this is a great post
Posted by DanielRAY on 07/26/2009 at 03:08pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
My two websites: http://www.urnnes.com and http://www.tootallspottery.com
Video of me on the Potter’s wheel: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yc4oJgRsqEI
Posted by Matthew Kennedy on 08/14/2009 at 12:08pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Penelope. I really liked that you worked for your boyfriends company. That is very smart and it looks good on your resume. It is a good idea for anyone who is between jobs. If a loved one doesnt have a company these days it doesnt take much to start one on your own. If you have some skill you can sell or consult then you can do it while looking for a job.
Posted by Investments on 10/04/2009 at 04:07pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
This is really great. Well the one part I am not sure about is when you mentioned volunteering for you boyfriend's company. On my resumes I've always separated volunteer from paid work. To be honest, I'm not sure why but it's been pounded in my head that there is a fine line between "fluff" and "lie", and making volunteer seem like full-time crosses that boundary.
I enjoy your career advice because it tells me things I've always wanted to do (like pursue a hobby while not working)but have somehow never been able to successfully justify.
Thanks bunches.
Posted by Lisa on 10/13/2009 at 02:20am | permalink | Reply to this comment
I moved to the US from London, England 10 months ago. I've had one job so far which didn't work out after around 2 months. Thanks to this article I've been inspired to use my freelance writing as a way of explaining away this year's unemployment, rather than call on the recession as an explanation. Thanks for your input; this article is stuck to my fridge door to help self-start me during depressing phases!
Posted by Carolyn on 10/17/2009 at 11:30am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Great post – you always need to keep learning
Posted by Tutor Kate London on 11/05/2009 at 04:24am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Starting a company is not a difficult part. The hardest one is how to make a company successful. By the way, thanks for the tips. They are really useful in the time like this.
Posted by social bookmark on 12/07/2009 at 05:22pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Great tips, but creating a job for yourself is hardly as easy as it sounds. Starting a company? That is even harder. Of course, I'm not saying don't try, but make a plan and stick to it.
Posted by portrait from picture on 12/08/2009 at 08:39pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
You're just what the doctor ordered. I am about to go on a hike with a friend from my previous job, and as good a friend as she is I want to put on a good, positive game face which I usually do, but sometimes,… "What have I been doing these last almost four months?" I thought to myself. I know I should be doing more…Blogging is one thing I know I have to do, but I have been stumped on deciding on the right topic that will stick, that I can publicize and I will write everyday. Now I need to find something new – or not so new – to learn so I can teach. And work on my daughter's art career (and help her finish college applications.) Prioritizing and not being able to focus is my demise, however. I cannot seem to do one thing without feeling like I have to be doing another. Off to my hike. It's a beautiful day. Thanks!
Posted by Lana on 01/03/2010 at 10:08am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Start your own company when you are unemployed? Sounds like you know how to start a company with no $$$ invlolved. Please do tell. What bank is going to give you a loan to start your company when you do not have a job?
if it were only that easy…. starting a company of ANY kinds takes MONEY…..something most umemployed people have very little of.
Posted by LM on 01/03/2010 at 04:24pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
Starting a blog is not always easy for an unemployed person. Apparently it might seem that earning through a blog is easy, but it needs a lot of hard work over a long period of time.
My suggestion is to provide some services online for quick and easy money..
Posted by Interior Design Ideas on 01/07/2010 at 11:23am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Best is to build your team with some of your colleagues and start a joint venture, like minded people when work together can do wonders..
Posted by Interior Design Ideas on 01/07/2010 at 11:26am | permalink | Reply to this comment
How to start company without money? I'm interesting…
Posted by Nursing career on 01/09/2010 at 05:05pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I agree with most of your comments, but saying that working a couple of hours at a part time job (for no pay) can look the same as a full time job is dangerous. Oh, sure; you might get the job because you didn't, on paper, have any "gaps" in your resume. But the moment you're hired and HR does a background check using your Social Security number, they'll learn immediately that you at best lied by omission in the interview and at worst, lied outright. That will get you right back in the unemployment line. I know. My best friend is a Director of HR, and she constantly tells me similar stories about new hires who got fired (remember that 90-day waiting period in most companies?) after a background check showed they misrepresented their income, work history, or some other aspect of their background.
Unless you have a working spouse, are independently wealthy, are living with your parents, or have a huge bank account, looking for a job HAS to be a full time job. Hey, if you can afford to swing dance and spend money on frivolous activities, and not treat your job search like a full time job, go for it.
The other tips you mention are all right on the mark and great advice.
Posted by Amanda K on 01/15/2010 at 06:41pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I posted earlier about how I am now helping to promote my teen's art career – so my new job title of Social Media Director/Publicist. Tonight is the opening of the kid's current art show. We just launched a new website bendow-art [dot] com and now I'm learning about web development. Plus part of my "new job" is going to art openings. Fun. I still have to start my pole dancing exercise class. I'd love to teach that! Thanks Ms. Brazen.
Posted by Lana on 01/16/2010 at 04:32pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
You forgot to mention the fact that some people have no way to live! This makes the stress almost unbearable. What if you graduated college in 2008 and still have been unable to find a job? It was nice at first, but it's getting horrible. Some people have absolutely 0 dollars and exercising and pursuing hobbies aren't going to change the fact that I am about to starve. Good advice otherwise.
Posted by k on 01/28/2010 at 09:42am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Very insightful! This message should be shared with the 10% of Americans who are currently unemployed. In fact, if they apply what they see here, it may give our economy the stimulation we need. :)
Posted by Rachelle Wooten on 02/07/2010 at 04:10pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
I don't recommend starting a company or business if you are on unemployment (they will cut you off), so be careful how you go about some things.
Tom
Posted by Thomas Marciniak on 02/16/2010 at 11:25am | permalink | Reply to this comment
"…a resume doesn’t show part-time or full-time and it doesn’t show pay or no pay. So volunteering at my boyfriend’s company for a couple of hours a day ended up looking like a full-time job on my resume."
Ummmmmm. This is a great way to falsify your employment applications. No wonder you were unemployed. I'm sure your previous employer probably caught you lying on your prior employment qualifications and dismissed you when they had the chance. This is the #1 statement at the beginning of the article???? I don't need to read any further.
Posted by Doug on 02/17/2010 at 11:56am | permalink | Reply to this comment
Openly showing time on your resume as a volunteer is very helpful especially if you can show details that relate to the job you are seeking. If employers know you are seeking work and volunteering at the same time, they will look favorably on this.
Posted by Vaughn on 03/01/2010 at 03:36pm | permalink | Reply to this comment
You all gotta be kidding me. apparently I found a site that has a bunch of people who do not have mortgage or bills. My hats off to you all
Posted by lisa on 03/09/2010 at 03:16pm | permalink | Reply to this comment