Who is Melissa?
Are you wondering why Melissa pops up on my blog so often? There’s a bunch of posts below that tell the story of how I got to know Melissa. The first post is her bugging me, more insanely than anyone has ever bugged me, to link to her from my blog. The last post is when Melissa started living in my house. Now she just comes back to visit a lot.

Before you get to the list of posts, here are things to know about Melissa. She is amazing at Twitter. And she knows everyone, everywhere, which is how she got @Melissa as her Twitter handle. She is not a good blogger, so I told her I won’t read her blog posts anymore. But she’s an incredible photographer. (Here’s my son.)

Here is her photography blog, which I love looking at if I skip the words.
Melissa takes most of the photos for my blog. My favorite thing she has done (which I am grateful that I did not have to pay for but you would have to pay for) is take pictures of me and the Farmer and our kids.

And she Photoshopped out anything I didn’t like about myself.
I love Melissa. I think you will too, if you read about her.
Wait. Don’t read yet. Melissa is reading over my shoulder. And before I finished she said, “Wait. She also takes Facebook very seriously.”
“What?”
Melissa said, “Me. Write that. I do.”
So here is my last line about Melissa: She takes her Facebook very seriously.
Posts About Melissa
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November 2010: Come to the Brazen Careerist Party in DC
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January 2011: Social skills boot camp
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February 2011: How to work at home successfully
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February 2011: How to make a genuine connection with anyone
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March 2011: I have a new book. Buy it now.
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May 2011: How to quit every job and still have a good resume
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May 2011: What it looks like to start a new business
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May 2011: Prom is a Career Stepping Stone
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May 2011: How to date your co-worker
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May 2011: What to do if you think you’re getting fired
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May 2011: Good plans feel unsteady
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June 2011: How to find satisfying work
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June 2011: You can reframe anything
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June 2011: Work is a safe haven
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June 2011: Are you a trendspotter?
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June 2011: Keys to getting unlost
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July 2011: Self-publishing update: My import/export business
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July 2011: Why most career coaching fails
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August 2011: How to pitch a blogger
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August 2011: Coworkers change your life
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November 2011: How to save off loneliness
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November 2011: How to find a job you’ll love
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January 2012: Things I wish I had written
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April 2012: How I decide where to focus my energy
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October 2012: Find the right career by doing the wrong career
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October 2012: 5 steps to developing your resilience

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