We took a trip to NYC because I was worried that we are were not being exposed to enough visually stimulating inputs. I want the kids to see new things, do new things, and I wanted to see the Barney’s Christmas windows. The theme was foodies. I was stressed that I was not up on […]
I smashed a lamp over my head. There was blood everywhere. And glass. And I took a picture. I think my life is getting better because it used to be that I wrote everything. In order to cope. Now I can take pictures. So I have two coping mechanisms. The best way to judge someone […]
Here’s a list of the posts that got the most comments this year. Interestingly, the post that got the most traffic is did not make the list. That post is: What it’s like to have sex with someone who has Asperger’s. Thank you for a fun year. I feel so grateful to have my blog. […]
The most common criticism of my blog (which has 60,000 subscribers) is that I write controversial headlines just to get traffic. I usually ignore this criticism because it’s so ignorant. But today I’m going to tell you why writing controversial headlines just to be controversial is totally stupid. There is no formula for a wildly […]
It’s true that I am publishing my gift suggestions too late for the biggest gift-giving season of the year. But I think it’s okay, because the gifts are totally impractical. In fact, I think this is actually my wish list—stuff I wish I had been given over the years to keep my career on track. […]
My new thing is self-discipline. I am going to get better at it. I am nervous writing this, because I don't want to fail. So this is the first thing I know: If you are really serious about doing something, it's painful to tell people, because fear of failure is so high. Once you decide […]
It's the time of year when there are a bazillion articles about what gift you should give your boss. The implication is that of course you'll give a gift. But I think you're better off skipping it. Here's why: 1. Gift recommendations are not really recommendations. When a journalist or blogger (is there a difference?) […]
The farmer bought me a camera. It’s a big deal for us because the farmer agreed to date me only if his photo would never show up on my blog. It means a lot to me that he’s buying me a camera which, invariably, will mean more photos of him on the blog. But also, […]
This is a guest post from Fabian Kruse. His blog is The Friendly Anarchist. “May you live in interesting times,” a Chinese curse goes. It’s true: “Interestingness” is a dangerously broad term. Having a chronic illness can be interesting but it sucks. Wars can be interesting — but they suck even more. And maybe you […]
I want to finally end the bullshit of dividing women into categories of stay-at-home mom or working mom. This is not just semantics: we are all working. It’s more than that. Here’s why. Before I had my first child, in 2002, I had been bouncing between corporate jobs and fast-paced startups ten years, and I […]