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Browsing category "Learn to take advice"

How to recognize bad advice about work

May 12th, 2009
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Be careful who you take career advice from. Knowing who to take advice from is a really good skill for any aspect of your life, but especially in the field of work, because work is changing very fast right now. A lot of advice that was good ten years ago is not good now. And [...]

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Five steps to make yourself great

May 7th, 2009
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The best way to get control of your career and stability in your life is to be great at what you do. Superstars are not out of work right now. Really. Even in finance. If you have an amazing track record in your field of work, you’ll have a job. And if you need to [...]

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How to decide if you need a therapist

January 28th, 2009
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I receive about fifty career questions each week. The questions have a predictable diversity, but not my answers. My answers are almost always the same advice: Know yourself better.
Watch:
Problem: My boss is a jerk. How can I fix it?
Advice: Understand what you can do differently to make people act differently around you.
Problem: My coworker got [...]

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Make better decisions for yourself by watching decisions celebrities make

December 10th, 2008
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This week's poll is about celebrities because I love peeking into their lives in order to see the world in new ways. I love learning so much that I think that’s even why I spent so much time with the farmer even though it was bad for a long time before I stopped dating him. [...]

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Three bad career questions people ask me all the time

July 14th, 2008
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I'd like to tell you that there are no bad questions. But you know what? That's not true. So here are the ways people ask me questions that drive me nuts:
1. You ask me a career question for your wife.
The first problem with you walking around in the world telling people you need help for [...]

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How to identify someone who is giving you bad advice

June 24th, 2008
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The worst career advice I ever gave was to my brother's college roommate, Robert Buckley. He was one year out of college when he asked me if he should quit healthcare consulting to become an actor.
I said, No, that's the dumbest idea I ever heard.
He told me he thought he had talent, and then (like [...]

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None of us has especially unique career trouble – not even Emily Gould

May 26th, 2008
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One of the most dangerous things you can do in your career is to think you are different from everyone else. The biggest validation of that idea comes in AA meetings – it is widely understood by this group that thinking you're different is just an excuse not to get help, an excuse to think [...]

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How to start something that scares you (and I'm Twittering)

Posted to: Blogging |  Learn to take advice
April 17th, 2008
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I started using Twitter, after thinking about starting for at least six months. It's very scary to start something new and have no idea what I'm doing.
But I also know that all the excitement in my career has come from my willingness to try stuff that is scary—because I don't know if I will be [...]

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Advice from the trenches of my television trials

January 11th, 2008
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I have been auditioning to host a reality show about work, and I'm supposed to fly out to Los Angeles for a test run in front of a camera. My friend Sharon, hair stylist to the LA jet set, told me that I have to get my teeth whitened.
I am a big fan of taking [...]

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Learn to take criticism well by choosing your critics well

December 24th, 2007
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Do you ever search 43 Things? I love going through it to see what goals people have for themselves. I like seeing where my own goals and accomplishments fit in with everyone else's.
On 43 Things, 21 people want to learn to take criticism but 77,000 people want to get a promotion. You know what's wrong [...]

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Stop thinking you'll get by on your high I.Q.

November 20th, 2007
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My son's I.Q. is in the top .05% of all preschoolers, but he attended preschool in a special education classroom. He has Asperger's Syndrome, a form of autism typified by a distinctly high I.Q. and a notable lack of emotional intelligence. Asperger's is thought to be genetic, and it is surging among kids in places [...]

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What's a good question? What's a good answer?

September 9th, 2007
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The best questions are not necessarily those that get answers, but those that lead to sharper questions.
My friend Marci Alboher, who writes for the New York Times, often calls me to ask questions about blogging and personal branding. I usually give her strongly opinionated answers and add a little emphasis about how I know that I'm right.
Then [...]

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Do you need a career coach or a shrink?

March 21st, 2007
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I had a career coach. I got the coach the day after a meeting where I was the only woman and the only person under thirty. My boss said, “You need more polish. You need a career coach." I thought, “Great, my boss is going to pay to help me to fit in with the [...]

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Hey, it's time to pre-order my book!

March 8th, 2007
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Today's the big day that I announce my book. It's not out yet. Not until May 22. But today is the day I put the photo of the book cover on the blog and tell you that you should pre-order the book. Yes. Please do that.
But what I'm really going to do today is tell [...]

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Pay attention to your critics — at least some of them

February 2nd, 2007
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Take a look at my Yahoo! Finance column for this week: 239 people rated it an average of two stars out of five. Which is an improvement, because yesterday the average was one star. Also, there are 94 comments, which can be fairly represented by the one that I copy and paste here:
"I think this [...]

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4 tips for being your own career coach

January 26th, 2007
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Giving advice about careers is easier than taking it. People are always calling me on this — spitting my advice back to me at my most vulnerable moments. Like when I was late delivering my column five weeks in a row, and my editor said, "Remember that time you wrote about how being late is [...]

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How to sort through career advice

August 24th, 2006
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When it comes to career advice, it seems that everyone has some. The trouble is figuring out who to listen to. Most people field advice from friends, parents, teachers and significant others. John Clark, a music producer and sound engineer, even found information technology consultants tossing advice his way.
Before you tell everyone to shut up, [...]

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Three more ways to think about career happiness

August 22nd, 2006
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If you ask most people if they like their jobs, they'll say yes. Alan Kreuger — scintillating economics professor at Princeton, whom I interviewed this morning — says that this is not because people have jobs they like, but because people have cognitive dissonance and are hard-programmed to like what they have.
On the positive side, [...]

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Jack Welch needs to play more golf

August 18th, 2006
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A book I've really liked recently was Will You Please Just F*ck Off, It's Our Turn Now: Holding Baby Boomers to Account, by Ryan Heath. It's about how baby boomers won't admit when their ideas are old.
Here is a great example of this problem: Jack Welch (and Suzy Welch) writing ridiculous career advice that assumes [...]

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I'm moving out of New York City

August 10th, 2006
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It used to be that people moved to where their job was. But where you live has a lot of impact on how happy you are. So it makes sense that today people pick a city first and then find a job, and cities maven Wendy Waters thinks this trend will increase. I will be [...]

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