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	<title>Comments on: When women get power at work, do they use it like men do?</title>
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	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
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		<title>By: Breastfeeding Your Man and Blind Date Sex &#8211; While Kids are in the Next Room &#124; Dad's House</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/03/09/when-women-get-power-at-work-do-they-use-it-like-men-do/comment-page-2/#comment-211984</link>
		<dc:creator>Breastfeeding Your Man and Blind Date Sex &#8211; While Kids are in the Next Room &#124; Dad's House</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 01:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] hookup at home while her young daughter slept in the next room. But she&#8217;s not alone. Penelope Trunk recently blogged about something [...]</description>
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		<title>By: DirkJohanson</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/03/09/when-women-get-power-at-work-do-they-use-it-like-men-do/comment-page-2/#comment-203108</link>
		<dc:creator>DirkJohanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 15:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I take note of the assumptions by everyone that when a girl sleeps her way up to the top, it is the guys that enable this that have all the power.

Uh - isn&#039;t the girl using HER power to get what she wants?

Meanwhile, of course, as Guyinism recognizes, its the young, hard-working regular guys that are on the outs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I take note of the assumptions by everyone that when a girl sleeps her way up to the top, it is the guys that enable this that have all the power.</p>
<p>Uh &#8211; isn&#039;t the girl using HER power to get what she wants?</p>
<p>Meanwhile, of course, as Guyinism recognizes, its the young, hard-working regular guys that are on the outs.</p>
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		<title>By: heaven's sake</title>
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		<dc:creator>heaven's sake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 08:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great, Penelope, so you slept your way up in your career. So all the other women who did NOT sleep with the guys that were helping you talk to people were edged out. Thanks a lot. And now you&#039;re cavalierly writing about it as if it were nothing, or even expected. Well, in case this comes as a shock to you or to any young women who read your blog, most women do not behave this way, and it is morally wrong. It hurts you, the man, and other women (and men). Shame on you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great, Penelope, so you slept your way up in your career. So all the other women who did NOT sleep with the guys that were helping you talk to people were edged out. Thanks a lot. And now you&#039;re cavalierly writing about it as if it were nothing, or even expected. Well, in case this comes as a shock to you or to any young women who read your blog, most women do not behave this way, and it is morally wrong. It hurts you, the man, and other women (and men). Shame on you.</p>
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		<title>By: On the Direction of the Flow of Wealth between Man and Woman &#171; Richard Hollerith</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/03/09/when-women-get-power-at-work-do-they-use-it-like-men-do/comment-page-2/#comment-189189</link>
		<dc:creator>On the Direction of the Flow of Wealth between Man and Woman &#171; Richard Hollerith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 16:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Career Advice: Dan Schwabel vs Penelope Trunk &#124; Viralogy Blog</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/03/09/when-women-get-power-at-work-do-they-use-it-like-men-do/comment-page-2/#comment-187035</link>
		<dc:creator>Career Advice: Dan Schwabel vs Penelope Trunk &#124; Viralogy Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 15:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] also explores the curious topic of whether woman can use their power at work to help their young lovers like men do to younger girls. Finally, she gives out standard nice advice about how can girls get [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Sexually Confident Woman or Slut? &#124; The Confidence Guy</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/03/09/when-women-get-power-at-work-do-they-use-it-like-men-do/comment-page-2/#comment-185496</link>
		<dc:creator>Sexually Confident Woman or Slut? &#124; The Confidence Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 19:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Trunk recently told her blog readers about a younger guy she was sleeping with, and looking at the comments the opinions vary between &#8216;incredible&#8216;, &#8216;hear, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: What&#8217;s with these people? A short critique of Gen-Y, and a few other things for flavor. &#124; Wil Butler</title>
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		<dc:creator>What&#8217;s with these people? A short critique of Gen-Y, and a few other things for flavor. &#124; Wil Butler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 17:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] pissing on her floor and asking her to wake them up like she&#8217;s their mommy, and a little post about one trying to sleep his way to the top using her, what the hell is wrong with young people [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] pissing on her floor and asking her to wake them up like she&#039;s their mommy, and a little post about one trying to sleep his way to the top using her, what the hell is wrong with young people [...]</p>
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		<title>By: cara</title>
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		<dc:creator>cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 01:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You had me when he pinned you....THEN WHAT?!?!

No, women do not use power in the workplace the same way men do. Usually. Men want what they want and zero in on that target. And that target could be anything, not necessarily sexual.

Women? We want to analyze the hell out of everything. Some do it faster than others but I think it is a universal quality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You had me when he pinned you&#8230;.THEN WHAT?!?!</p>
<p>No, women do not use power in the workplace the same way men do. Usually. Men want what they want and zero in on that target. And that target could be anything, not necessarily sexual.</p>
<p>Women? We want to analyze the hell out of everything. Some do it faster than others but I think it is a universal quality.</p>
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		<title>By: bmenews</title>
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		<dc:creator>bmenews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 18:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You Got it</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You Got it</p>
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		<title>By: Joanne Tombrakos</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanne Tombrakos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 15:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this is a brilliant blog post! I admire your transparency and your dialogue with your initial discomfort as well as with your intrigue with this man. 

The double standard still exists. What is acceptable for men in the workplace is a topic of discussion when the woman is the older, more powerful one. But that is changing.

I look forward to see what happens next !

Joanne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is a brilliant blog post! I admire your transparency and your dialogue with your initial discomfort as well as with your intrigue with this man. </p>
<p>The double standard still exists. What is acceptable for men in the workplace is a topic of discussion when the woman is the older, more powerful one. But that is changing.</p>
<p>I look forward to see what happens next !</p>
<p>Joanne</p>
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