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	<title>Comments on: How to decide if you need a therapist</title>
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	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
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		<title>By: mjacma</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/01/28/how-to-decide-if-you-need-to-see-a-therapist/comment-page-1/#comment-264696</link>
		<dc:creator>mjacma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 20:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that was super helpful in deciding if i need therpy. thank you thank . </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that was super helpful in deciding if i need therpy. thank you thank .</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Ribaudo&#39;s &#39;This is a Blog&#39; &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Good advice is hard to find.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Ribaudo&#39;s &#39;This is a Blog&#39; &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Good advice is hard to find.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 20:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] read at least a dozen of her posts; topics ranged from one&#8217;s likelihood of being promoted, to deciding if you need a therapist, to tips on navigating a quarter-life [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] read at least a dozen of her posts; topics ranged from one&#039;s likelihood of being promoted, to deciding if you need a therapist, to tips on navigating a quarter-life [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mental Health Issues: The Elephant In Our Generation&#8217;s Room</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mental Health Issues: The Elephant In Our Generation&#8217;s Room</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 02:11:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] offers an Employee Assistance Programs that can provide some direction.  There&#8217;s absolutely nothing wrong with seeing a therapist; if anything, it speaks volumes about your determination to acknowledge your personal demons and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] offers an Employee Assistance Programs that can provide some direction.  There&#039;s absolutely nothing wrong with seeing a therapist; if anything, it speaks volumes about your determination to acknowledge your personal demons and [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Luke S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luke S.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 13:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was referring to this:
Problem: My boss is a jerk. How can I fix it?

Advice: Understand what you can do differently to make people act differently around you.

Problem: My coworker got promoted instead of me but she does not work.

Advice: Understand why you are not as likable as your coworker and make yourself more likable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was referring to this:<br />
Problem: My boss is a jerk. How can I fix it?</p>
<p>Advice: Understand what you can do differently to make people act differently around you.</p>
<p>Problem: My coworker got promoted instead of me but she does not work.</p>
<p>Advice: Understand why you are not as likable as your coworker and make yourself more likable.</p>
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		<title>By: Luke S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luke S.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 13:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;q cite=&quot;Understand why you are not as likable as your coworker and make yourself more likable.&quot;&gt;
Although I did enjoy your narrative, life just isn&#039;t this simple. Sometimes the problem has way more to do with other things than what you, yourself, can do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><q cite="Understand why you are not as likable as your coworker and make yourself more likable."><br />
Although I did enjoy your narrative, life just isn&#039;t this simple. Sometimes the problem has way more to do with other things than what you, yourself, can do.</q></p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 02:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in therapy, and I have probably needed to go for a very long time. But, I was ready now, and I went. At the same time, I don&#039;t think I am especially interesting. So, nice try. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in therapy, and I have probably needed to go for a very long time. But, I was ready now, and I went. At the same time, I don&#039;t think I am especially interesting. So, nice try. ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Howard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Howard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 13:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ms. Trunk is a bunch of hogwash. She is self-congratulatory, and seeking only money, notoriety, and bragging rights. 

Just listen to her radio bits or read her &quot;stories&quot;, and you&#039;ll understand what I write this. Her attempts at being humorous are no more than some rip off of Howard Stern the shock jock.

I listen to two radio shows that offered nothing close to any career advice. It consisted of only bathroom humor, and some other non-sense about her needing a date. 

I felt cheated of my time, and I hope to inform readers here that if you are seeking career guidance, go elsewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ms. Trunk is a bunch of hogwash. She is self-congratulatory, and seeking only money, notoriety, and bragging rights. </p>
<p>Just listen to her radio bits or read her &#034;stories&#034;, and you&#039;ll understand what I write this. Her attempts at being humorous are no more than some rip off of Howard Stern the shock jock.</p>
<p>I listen to two radio shows that offered nothing close to any career advice. It consisted of only bathroom humor, and some other non-sense about her needing a date. </p>
<p>I felt cheated of my time, and I hope to inform readers here that if you are seeking career guidance, go elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 16:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am always trying to figure myself out, then I go through long periods of not wanting to know anything. Therapy unless you&#039;re really sick and hanging from the chandelier seems like a narcissistic endeavor. It&#039;s like, &quot;I&#039;m paying someone to listen to me. It&#039;s my hour and only mine&quot;

Probably because everyone else is tired of listening to you. I was beat up and ridiculed by neighborhood kids when I was a child. I&#039;ve never really gotten over that. Do I really want a therapist to ask how I feel about that. I feel bad, so now what? 

&quot;Let&#039;s explore how you are feeling bad, and how that might connect to your current situation of having no job, no wife, no kids, and no family to speak of.&quot;

Boy, I just saved 300 bucks. I should just end it now. Say I do come to terms with why I am feeling bad. Now what? There&#039;s now a line forming of all the other people I&#039;ll need to solve my problem. Why not just line up cash registers in a row? Better, is there anyone I can pay one lump sum to and problem solved. 

I say do some work at a food bank ladling out soup...and certainly before you&#039;re IN that particular line. I can make a argument that life is all about lines. And which one you&#039;re in. Excuse me, that&#039;s what the therapist is for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am always trying to figure myself out, then I go through long periods of not wanting to know anything. Therapy unless you&#039;re really sick and hanging from the chandelier seems like a narcissistic endeavor. It&#039;s like, &#034;I&#039;m paying someone to listen to me. It&#039;s my hour and only mine&#034;</p>
<p>Probably because everyone else is tired of listening to you. I was beat up and ridiculed by neighborhood kids when I was a child. I&#039;ve never really gotten over that. Do I really want a therapist to ask how I feel about that. I feel bad, so now what? </p>
<p>&#034;Let&#039;s explore how you are feeling bad, and how that might connect to your current situation of having no job, no wife, no kids, and no family to speak of.&#034;</p>
<p>Boy, I just saved 300 bucks. I should just end it now. Say I do come to terms with why I am feeling bad. Now what? There&#039;s now a line forming of all the other people I&#039;ll need to solve my problem. Why not just line up cash registers in a row? Better, is there anyone I can pay one lump sum to and problem solved. </p>
<p>I say do some work at a food bank ladling out soup&#8230;and certainly before you&#039;re IN that particular line. I can make a argument that life is all about lines. And which one you&#039;re in. Excuse me, that&#039;s what the therapist is for.</p>
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		<title>By: Alfred</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alfred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 08:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well to be honest, I hope I wont need therapist in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well to be honest, I hope I wont need therapist in the future.</p>
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		<dc:creator>The Plot Thickens&#8230; &#124; MayDecember Secrets...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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