A couple of older women were talking about Marilyn's breast size while gazing at a few nude images. They were comparing their own breast sizes and talking like the attention was "mis"focused. It was all about them. It took what was an image of the youthful exuberant sexuality of that Forever Blonde, and made it obscene. Marilyn probably cried in her grave. I covered my ears and said, blah, blah, blah… as maturely as possible.

I accompanied my sister-from-another-mother. I feel like I need to explain that – let's just say she's this great friend and I'd get the paper work done to make it legal if it mattered cause it just fits.

Anyway, a play followed. It was a one-person, one-act play and starred Marilyn's reincarnation right down to that breathy laugh that made the world turn its head. She switched costumes on set behind a screen and wore the tightest red dress that made me wish I was fabric. How the hell can anyone be so sexy?

When my sister (fam) and I debriefed the show we talked about what it means to "know thyself". We spent hours dissecting it. What we came up with, was what all of us already inherently know – life's a journey, people change, and lotsa times we need a relationship to act as a mirror so we can strip away what is false and wrap our arms around what is truth. No man is an island. (And neither is any woman…) I just wonder why it's taking so long to find a partner that is intimate enough to have that dialog.

I guess the flow comes when you are immersed in your passion and "know thyself", but I don't think it's something we can do alone.

Also, flow and process are very key to success. If you have tunnel vision because you're not being flexible to meet your goal, then you're at a loss. But if you go with the flow keeping the process and end result in mind then you will achieve your goal faster and have a more enriched self along the way.