Three counter-intuitive tips for managing your image
October 30th, 2008
To manage your image effectively, you have to think constantly about how other people will perceive you.
Are you wondering if you’re good at image management? Ask yourself how you responded to that first sentence. If you said to yourself, “I am not consumed by what other people think of me—I have enough self-confidence to just …
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3 Ways work will change when Gen Y is in charge
October 23rd, 2008
Part of knowing where to steer your career is knowing what is changing in the landscape. In ten years, Gen Y will have taken over middle management. Maybe in five years, if my own office is any indication. But I am sure that Gen Y will run the show differently. And no matter your age, …
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The five books that wasted the most time for me
October 21st, 2008
There are so many lists of books to read before you die, or before you turn 30, or before your job sucks the life out of you. But you probably wouldn’t need to depend on a list from someone else if you could just figure out how to pick your own.
The best way to get …
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Self-sabotage is never limited to just one part of your life
October 20th, 2008
At the start of our road trip to his cousin’s wedding in Illinois, the farmer says, “I have a present for you.”
He pulls out a book that is wrapped in the paper that wrapped the last present I got him: Lolita. Which he reads every time he sleeps over at my house. I knew that …
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Feeling special is just as important as fitting in
October 8th, 2008
Tomorrow is Yom Kippur, and you can bet that there will be no big financial announcements. This is because Jews make up a disproportionately huge number of people in finance. So when the Jews take off work for Yom Kippur, there is not enough liquidity in the financial markets for anything really big to happen. …
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You should make Sarah Palin your mentor
October 6th, 2008
Is no one going to say that Sarah Palin rocked the vice presidential debate? Who is so arrogant to think that they could do better with just five weeks’ preparation?
She did a great job. She memorized speeches that she trotted out in good moments. And she had such nerve! Most of us would …
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Guest post: 5 new rules for dealing with race at work
October 3rd, 2008
Here's a guest post from Carmen Van Kerckhove. I have learned so much about race from her blog, Racialicious, that I asked her to write five tips for dealing with race at work. She always surprises me and this is no exception.
Rule 1: Don’t be colorblind.
People say this all the time: “I don't …
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Intentional non-productivity is a productivity tool
October 1st, 2008
Almost 95% of Jews do something to observe Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. I want my kids to be part of this when they grow up, so the only way to do that is to model it for them now. Because it’s completely clear to me that people who believe in God are fundamentally more …
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