Comments on: A case study in staying resilient: My divorce http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/ Advice at the intersection of work and life Thu, 09 Feb 2012 13:32:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: My plan for going forward http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-261911 My plan for going forward Sat, 01 Oct 2011 04:43:51 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-261911 [...] it weren't that I've already blogged about sex abuse, my miscarriage and my divorce, I'd worry that my blog will never get past the topic of domestic violence, and I'll face [...] [...] it weren't that I've already blogged about sex abuse, my miscarriage and my divorce, I'd worry that my blog will never get past the topic of domestic violence, and I'll face [...]

]]> By: Shanejimison http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-260014 Shanejimison Sat, 10 Sep 2011 04:50:00 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-260014  I get a lot of divorce blog in Google Alerts every day (I am a lawyer and try to keep up with what's going on) but I don't get such genuine, well written blogs as this one.  I deal with the personal side of divorce every day, but it takes real guts to put it out there like you did.  Thanks. <a href="http://divorcevirginia.net/uncontested-divorce/divorce-by-publication/" rel="nofollow">Virginia Divorce Lawyer</a>  I get a lot of divorce blog in Google Alerts every day (I am a lawyer and try to keep up with what's going on) but I don't get such genuine, well written blogs as this one.  I deal with the personal side of divorce every day, but it takes real guts to put it out there like you did.  Thanks.
Virginia Divorce Lawyer

]]> By: siteman11 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-259022 siteman11 Mon, 29 Aug 2011 15:41:06 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-259022 This research is what has kept me in my marriage. But now I am learning that marriage is a little like fertility in that I cannot control everything. And I think that one reason that Wired just asked me to write a column on how to start a business is because I have started one and seen it go under. There are sixteen personality types. It is reflected in the total involvement and commitment they bring to each moment of life. There is no doubt you will come through stronger. The athlete can tell you what to do and the obese person can tell you what NOT to do. This courage is a big part of the strength of your voice. NTs and SPs can be a volatile mix. Any loss is painful and for that I am very sorry. All you can do is your best to not add insult to injury. Personality tests do smack of horoscope readings. I read a lot about personality types and astrology when I was majorly depressed. My kids had a hard time at first and are now doing so well it amazes me every day. This is the way they will eventually come to accept it and move on healthily in their own futures. Very best wishes for a happier future as soon as possible. The great thing about Myers Brigg is the self awareness it brings. I think the real hurt comes when parents want to deny the hardships. His message to todays post is clearly an example of the exact kind of BS he is accusing you of.and trust me it rears its head and does make dating and relationships tough when it comes to gender and mentality. i have a friend from high school whose parents waited until she graduated to divorce and it was a major blow as she felt all she had grown up with had been fake. Surely not a recipe for success for either partner. However I do remember thinking that every relationship is different and how hard it is to give specific advice without knowing all the specific details. It would be like going to a doctor and being prescribed aspirin without the doctor asking any questions or doing any tests. It will be painful but with time and introspection you will find the answers and know much more about yourself. Take care of yourself and the kids. I have begun a regiment of ginkgo to aid with mental clarity and acuity. I had a very interesting experience earlier this week in my English class. Apparently my family tree has fewer branches than I would have hoped. You are an inspiring voice who helps thousands of people. And get through this before you even think about dating again. You need to be a whole person first. I was really pulling for you and Nino. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. I said your husband was a saint to well put up with you a long time ago. I know you will take this in the right way too. But I suspect I would take the dating thing slowly and get myself back together. Unless dating is the thing that will help you get yourself together. Took me a while to get it right. Resiliency is what separates victims from survivors. in all your previous posts i had assumed you merely wrote to portray yourself as the villain.Your complete honesty endears you to me as a person I would pick for a real life friend. Mostly it contained my husbands new girlfriend. Good Luck to you on your journey.com using personality type as a freak filter. Nobody ever enters a marriage with the intent to get a divorce. Make sure to take time for yourself during this transition. A healthy relationship keeps us functional. I believe I can improve any relationship if I want to. I tell people my divorce was the worst thing and best thing that ever happened to me. You will be stronger for this experience. Focus on yourself and your kids. Everything else will fall into place. And that type of question just makes the load heavier. Learning what my part is in the failure was really important for me. But conflict is part of human nature and divorce is an expression of that conflict. A good friend also relocated to the Madison area. You acknowledge failure as a part of the learning and growing process. Not to mention appearing on CNN. We should all be such a failure. I always pride myself on being resilient. How would I have known if I had not tried it. But I am sure very soon life will shine again for you. Do not allow him any false pretense whatsoever. I sent my husband links to some of your marriage counseling posts and they struck a cord with him. Maybe you want to show your investors that you can be strong in the face of problems. I am finally getting some personal growth out of the situation. And being free to comment also means being liable to be judged for your comments. I wish you the best of luck and admire your courage for using this experience to try and help others. It is never good news but does lead to growth. Thanks for sharing and good luck with everything for both of you and all parties involved in the divorce. I too am ENTJ and have gone through a divorce. you are more of a pundant for career advice than an actual expert on it. The fact that you have failed at many things is good. They sometimes use that as a template or an idea to do better. I read your blog for comedic reasons. My wish is for your happiness and the ongoing well being of both yourself and your family. I had to go take that darn test to see what I am. I now know that my Mom wanted to kill him at times. I love the homeschooling posts. It reminds me of how crazy I felt at the beginning. Thinking I could ever date a farmer.This is a great post. Lots of great information. href=" http://www.pof.freesinglescrowd.com pressmania.com/store/AdManiacStore.aspx This research is what has kept me in my marriage. But now I am learning that marriage is a little like fertility in that I cannot control everything. And I think that one reason that Wired just asked me to write a column on how to start a business is because I have started one and seen it go under. There are sixteen personality types. It is reflected in the total involvement and commitment they bring to each moment of life. There is no doubt you will come through stronger. The athlete can tell you what to do and the obese person can tell you what NOT to do. This courage is a big part of the strength of your voice. NTs and SPs can be a volatile mix. Any loss is painful and for that I am very sorry. All you can do is your best to not add insult to injury. Personality tests do smack of horoscope readings. I read a lot about personality types and astrology when I was majorly depressed. My kids had a hard time at first and are now doing so well it amazes me every day. This is the way they will eventually come to accept it and move on healthily in their own futures. Very best wishes for a happier future as soon as possible. The great thing about Myers Brigg is the self awareness it brings. I think the real hurt comes when parents want to deny the hardships. His message to todays post is clearly an example of the exact kind of BS he is accusing you of.and trust me it rears its head and does make dating and relationships tough when it comes to gender and mentality. i have a friend from high school whose parents waited until she graduated to divorce and it was a major blow as she felt all she had grown up with had been fake. Surely not a recipe for success for either partner. However I do remember thinking that every relationship is different and how hard it is to give specific advice without knowing all the specific details. It would be like going to a doctor and being prescribed aspirin without the doctor asking any questions or doing any tests. It will be painful but with time and introspection you will find the answers and know much more about yourself. Take care of yourself and the kids. I have begun a regiment of ginkgo to aid with mental clarity and acuity. I had a very interesting experience earlier this week in my English class. Apparently my family tree has fewer branches than I would have hoped. You are an inspiring voice who helps thousands of people. And get through this before you even think about dating again. You need to be a whole person first. I was really pulling for you and Nino. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. I said your husband was a saint to well put up with you a long time ago. I know you will take this in the right way too. But I suspect I would take the dating thing slowly and get myself back together. Unless dating is the thing that will help you get yourself together. Took me a while to get it right. Resiliency is what separates victims from survivors. in all your previous posts i had assumed you merely wrote to portray yourself as the villain.Your complete honesty endears you to me as a person I would pick for a real life friend. Mostly it contained my husbands new girlfriend. Good Luck to you on your journey.com using personality type as a freak filter. Nobody ever enters a marriage with the intent to get a divorce. Make sure to take time for yourself during this transition. A healthy relationship keeps us functional. I believe I can improve any relationship if I want to. I tell people my divorce was the worst thing and best thing that ever happened to me. You will be stronger for this experience. Focus on yourself and your kids. Everything else will fall into place. And that type of question just makes the load heavier. Learning what my part is in the failure was really important for me. But conflict is part of human nature and divorce is an expression of that conflict. A good friend also relocated to the Madison area. You acknowledge failure as a part of the learning and growing process. Not to mention appearing on CNN. We should all be such a failure. I always pride myself on being resilient. How would I have known if I had not tried it. But I am sure very soon life will shine again for you. Do not allow him any false pretense whatsoever. I sent my husband links to some of your marriage counseling posts and they struck a cord with him. Maybe you want to show your investors that you can be strong in the face of problems. I am finally getting some personal growth out of the situation. And being free to comment also means being liable to be judged for your comments. I wish you the best of luck and admire your courage for using this experience to try and help others. It is never good news but does lead to growth. Thanks for sharing and good luck with everything for both of you and all parties involved in the divorce. I too am ENTJ and have gone through a divorce. you are more of a pundant for career advice than an actual expert on it. The fact that you have failed at many things is good. They sometimes use that as a template or an idea to do better. I read your blog for comedic reasons. My wish is for your happiness and the ongoing well being of both yourself and your family. I had to go take that darn test to see what I am. I now know that my Mom wanted to kill him at times. I love the homeschooling posts. It reminds me of how crazy I felt at the beginning. Thinking I could ever date a farmer.This is a great post. Lots of great information. href=" http://www.pof.freesinglescrowd.com

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]]> By: Big Ramifications http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-259013 Big Ramifications Mon, 29 Aug 2011 09:18:20 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-259013 So, how you doin'? So, how you doin'?

]]> By: You can reframe anything | InternetRSSFeeds http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-253399 You can reframe anything | InternetRSSFeeds Wed, 22 Jun 2011 02:45:51 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-253399 [...] knew each other, of course. And negotiations went smoothly, except for my lawyer quitting first when I started blogging about the divorce and then when I agreed to talk about the divorce with the New York [...] [...] knew each other, of course. And negotiations went smoothly, except for my lawyer quitting first when I started blogging about the divorce and then when I agreed to talk about the divorce with the New York [...]

]]> By: hcg wholesale http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-243513 hcg wholesale Thu, 17 Feb 2011 02:51:29 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-243513 Im always worried about my business life and my marriage mixing to much and allowing that small chance of divorce to get even more complicated and harder than it already is. Im always worried about my business life and my marriage mixing to much and allowing that small chance of divorce to get even more complicated and harder than it already is.

]]> By: septine http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-236407 septine Wed, 01 Dec 2010 17:18:48 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-236407 Wow, I was googling on marriage and counseling then I found your blog. Very inspiring blog. You are a strong woman. :) Wow, I was googling on marriage and counseling then I found your blog. Very inspiring blog. You are a strong woman. :)

]]> By: Steal this blog: brazen careerist « Marketing Your Business http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-225315 Steal this blog: brazen careerist « Marketing Your Business Wed, 31 Mar 2010 20:06:01 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-225315 [...] My husband and I are getting a divorce. [...] [...] My husband and I are getting a divorce. [...]

]]> By: Penelope Trunk : Ms. Career Girl http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-216538 Penelope Trunk : Ms. Career Girl Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:04:42 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-216538 [...] If you’ve ever read Penelope’s personal blog you can find out just about every detail of her personal life, including her abortions and divorce. [...] [...] If you've ever read Penelope's personal blog you can find out just about every detail of her personal life, including her abortions and divorce. [...]

]]> By: Mark http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/comment-page-2/#comment-216308 Mark Mon, 14 Dec 2009 01:02:05 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/02/27/a-case-study-in-staying-resilient-my-divorce/#comment-216308 Very true, thanks for sharing something so personal - I'm sure comforting for a lot of people going through this. <a href="http://www.cuyx.com" rel="nofollow">Mark</a> Very true, thanks for sharing something so personal – I'm sure comforting for a lot of people going through this.

Mark

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