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	<title>Comments on: Quit work for a while to have kids. Your career will be just fine</title>
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	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
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		<title>By: Finance To Computer Science</title>
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		<dc:creator>Finance To Computer Science</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 04:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m doing the same thing...been in finance for 14 years and am pursuing a computer science degree.  Would like to get your take on how to transfer between the two without a decrease in pay.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m doing the same thing&#8230;been in finance for 14 years and am pursuing a computer science degree.  Would like to get your take on how to transfer between the two without a decrease in pay.</p>
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		<title>By: Jobs &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Check-up for self-delusion</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jobs &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Check-up for self-delusion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 00:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] boomer women had; people won’t even use the word feminist any more. And Generation X women, after creating the first fertility crisis in history by putting off kids for work, realized that they’d rather be home with kids than work [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] boomer women had; people won’t even use the word feminist any more. And Generation X women, after creating the first fertility crisis in history by putting off kids for work, realized that they’d rather be home with kids than work [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Women lose 90% of their eggs by the time they are 30, should we change our social standards? - Great Debates - Page 9 - City-Data Forum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Women lose 90% of their eggs by the time they are 30, should we change our social standards? - Great Debates - Page 9 - City-Data Forum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Originally Posted by Memphis1979   Women and Falling Fertility: Women Lose 90 Percent of Eggs by Age 30 - ABC News  I think this raises an interesting question.  I have noticed over the years, that younger and younger girls are more developed physically, and are sexually active at younger ages.   Honestly, think back to your middle school and early high school days. If you can&#039;t remember, break out a year book.  The girls were completely different when I was younger. Now a 15 year old looks like a 20 year old, easily. Part of its dress, part of it is actual physical development at an early age.  Girls start their periods earlier then ever before. This is in due largely to the rich diet they enjoy, so their body begins its reproductive cycle earlier. I think the same thing is happening with them physically.  So when I saw this story today, on GMA, I thought, are we wrong on our sexual stereotypes?   People are looking down at girls who are having children at a young age. However, this evidence shows that by the time they are 30, they have only 10% of the chance they once did to actually reproduce.   I mean, by the time you are 26, the average age of college students graduating, then get a job, and establish yourself in a stable manner, you&#039;d be 30 years old.  So, should we be encouraging sexual reproduction of girls at a younger age? And if they want to go to college later on, after they&#039;ve had their children, would that not be more biologically normal at this point?  Just some curious thoughts I had when I saw that story. Thought I&#039;d get everyones POV.   BTW, I am in no way saying we should have 15 year olds having kids with older men. I&#039;m saying that girls in their late teens, to early 20&#039;s should probably have kids first, and then education second. That would be more biologically normal with what we are now seeing wouldn&#039;t it?    Great question. I think Penelope Trunk&#039;s blog touches on some of your questions:    Quit work for a while to have kids. Your career will be just fine &#124; Penelope Trunk&#039;s Brazen Car... [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Originally Posted by Memphis1979   Women and Falling Fertility: Women Lose 90 Percent of Eggs by Age 30 &#8211; ABC News  I think this raises an interesting question.  I have noticed over the years, that younger and younger girls are more developed physically, and are sexually active at younger ages.   Honestly, think back to your middle school and early high school days. If you can&#39;t remember, break out a year book.  The girls were completely different when I was younger. Now a 15 year old looks like a 20 year old, easily. Part of its dress, part of it is actual physical development at an early age.  Girls start their periods earlier then ever before. This is in due largely to the rich diet they enjoy, so their body begins its reproductive cycle earlier. I think the same thing is happening with them physically.  So when I saw this story today, on GMA, I thought, are we wrong on our sexual stereotypes?   People are looking down at girls who are having children at a young age. However, this evidence shows that by the time they are 30, they have only 10% of the chance they once did to actually reproduce.   I mean, by the time you are 26, the average age of college students graduating, then get a job, and establish yourself in a stable manner, you&#39;d be 30 years old.  So, should we be encouraging sexual reproduction of girls at a younger age? And if they want to go to college later on, after they&#39;ve had their children, would that not be more biologically normal at this point?  Just some curious thoughts I had when I saw that story. Thought I&#39;d get everyones POV.   BTW, I am in no way saying we should have 15 year olds having kids with older men. I&#39;m saying that girls in their late teens, to early 20&#39;s should probably have kids first, and then education second. That would be more biologically normal with what we are now seeing wouldn&#39;t it?    Great question. I think Penelope Trunk&#39;s blog touches on some of your questions:    Quit work for a while to have kids. Your career will be just fine | Penelope Trunk&#39;s Brazen Car&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: AMSmith</title>
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		<dc:creator>AMSmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 01:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Penelope,
Great post. I mostly agree, but I think that this can be subjective based on industry. 

I found a link to your blog from &quot;Beyond the Glass Ceiling&quot;, which I found in the process of a research paper where the evidence of much recent data shows that the Glass Ceiling is basically irrelevant and family matters are more important. That being, women AND men sharing the family duties; priorities and the vision of success is now drastically different than with the baby boomers. I found The Shriver Report &quot;A Woman&#039;s Nation&quot;, recently released, incredibly informative and I&#039;d recommend that everyone read it. The point that I focused on within my paper was the simple difference between men and women, and that women are more likely to leave the workplace to either have children or care for a loved one and also that women, in many cases, are now the breadwinners and still not paid equally.
The one point I may disagree on is that while it may not be hard to get back into the work-game post-kids, but equality in pay for women still hasn&#039;t happened across the board - have you found any evidence of this even in consulting?

AMSmith</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Penelope,<br />
Great post. I mostly agree, but I think that this can be subjective based on industry. </p>
<p>I found a link to your blog from &#034;Beyond the Glass Ceiling&#034;, which I found in the process of a research paper where the evidence of much recent data shows that the Glass Ceiling is basically irrelevant and family matters are more important. That being, women AND men sharing the family duties; priorities and the vision of success is now drastically different than with the baby boomers. I found The Shriver Report &#034;A Woman&#039;s Nation&#034;, recently released, incredibly informative and I&#039;d recommend that everyone read it. The point that I focused on within my paper was the simple difference between men and women, and that women are more likely to leave the workplace to either have children or care for a loved one and also that women, in many cases, are now the breadwinners and still not paid equally.<br />
The one point I may disagree on is that while it may not be hard to get back into the work-game post-kids, but equality in pay for women still hasn&#039;t happened across the board &#8211; have you found any evidence of this even in consulting?</p>
<p>AMSmith</p>
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		<title>By: Henan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Henan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 11:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi everyone, it is Labor Day! I&#039;m happy with my extra day off, and I am planning to make something fun that&#039;ll probably involve a bike ride and seeing something new in Burnsville I haven&#039;t seen yet.
You write something new on a Monday at the labor day? ... HApPy BLoggiNg!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone, it is Labor Day! I&#039;m happy with my extra day off, and I am planning to make something fun that&#039;ll probably involve a bike ride and seeing something new in Burnsville I haven&#039;t seen yet.<br />
You write something new on a Monday at the labor day? &#8230; HApPy BLoggiNg!</p>
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		<title>By: SLC</title>
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		<dc:creator>SLC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 03:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With jobs now being outsourced to places like India and China, I don&#039;t think we&#039;ll have a lack of workers in Gen X as you said.  I really respect what you are preaching, that our children deserve more nurture from their parents and not just delegate to the nanny.  I really want to quit but being in the tech field, I know my job will just go overseas.  It&#039;s not like a book you&#039;ve bookmarked and you can return to the same page later.  I&#039;d have to start all over again as a cashier at Target or Walmart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With jobs now being outsourced to places like India and China, I don&#039;t think we&#039;ll have a lack of workers in Gen X as you said.  I really respect what you are preaching, that our children deserve more nurture from their parents and not just delegate to the nanny.  I really want to quit but being in the tech field, I know my job will just go overseas.  It&#039;s not like a book you&#039;ve bookmarked and you can return to the same page later.  I&#039;d have to start all over again as a cashier at Target or Walmart.</p>
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		<title>By: jcutter</title>
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		<dc:creator>jcutter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Penelope - Would your advice hold true in this economy? If I left my job after my leave, I would think that everyone would be wondering (1) was I involved in the law firm layoffs or (2) if not, what kind of idiot would leave? This is only relevant if the earth shatters and I can&#039;t make a career change go at some point and have to re-enter the legal profession. My plan right now - possibly try grad school in psychology and see what I think; network and explore some other careers and hire part-time child care; not really sure right now. I have saved up enough money to dawdle for a while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Penelope &#8211; Would your advice hold true in this economy? If I left my job after my leave, I would think that everyone would be wondering (1) was I involved in the law firm layoffs or (2) if not, what kind of idiot would leave? This is only relevant if the earth shatters and I can&#039;t make a career change go at some point and have to re-enter the legal profession. My plan right now &#8211; possibly try grad school in psychology and see what I think; network and explore some other careers and hire part-time child care; not really sure right now. I have saved up enough money to dawdle for a while.</p>
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		<title>By: support from the (blogging) universe &#171; McGraw Family</title>
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		<dc:creator>support from the (blogging) universe &#171; McGraw Family</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 16:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the nanny. Also, keep in mind that quitting work to have kids and reentering the workforce later is not that difficult for moms today. So get back into the workforce as soon as you think your kids can handle it; the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] the nanny. Also, keep in mind that quitting work to have kids and reentering the workforce later is not that difficult for moms today. So get back into the workforce as soon as you think your kids can handle it; the [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The rare woman tech start-up founder &#187; 16th letter &#187; Blog Archive</title>
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		<dc:creator>The rare woman tech start-up founder &#187; 16th letter &#187; Blog Archive</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 03:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] factor because I read Penelope Trunk&#8217;s blog, which, honestly,  scares  the  hell  out  of  me. (Go read some of those posts, you&#8217;ll fall in love with her blog, but you&#8217;ll be [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] factor because I read Penelope Trunk&#039;s blog, which, honestly,  scares  the  hell  out  of  me. (Go read some of those posts, you&#039;ll fall in love with her blog, but you&#039;ll be [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Truths about work hurt and heal &#171; Goals are Stupid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Truths about work hurt and heal &#171; Goals are Stupid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] jobs over the course of one&#8217;s career is not only okay, but expected. Throw in the lies about &#8220;work-life balance&#8221; (mostly aimed at women) companies are so fond of touting and see if you don&#8217;t start getting cynical, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] jobs over the course of one&#039;s career is not only okay, but expected. Throw in the lies about &#034;work-life balance&#034; (mostly aimed at women) companies are so fond of touting and see if you don&#039;t start getting cynical, [...]</p>
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