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	<title>Comments on: 5 Communication lessons learned in marriage counseling</title>
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	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
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		<title>By: Joey</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-1/#comment-223334</link>
		<dc:creator>Joey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You post that you read her blog every week, but then at the end of your comment you write &quot;stop blogging about it.  We don&#039;t care!&quot;  why would you put that if you follow her blog weekly, it doesn&#039;t make sense.  I think that the public IS interested in peoples lives as long as it is inline with their views.  If it is not the norm, then they are not happy with what was posted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You post that you read her blog every week, but then at the end of your comment you write &#034;stop blogging about it.  We don&#039;t care!&#034;  why would you put that if you follow her blog weekly, it doesn&#039;t make sense.  I think that the public IS interested in peoples lives as long as it is inline with their views.  If it is not the norm, then they are not happy with what was posted.</p>
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		<title>By: MLM Training</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-222082</link>
		<dc:creator>MLM Training</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 02:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish you both all the luck in the world and hope that you find true happiness together again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish you both all the luck in the world and hope that you find true happiness together again.</p>
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		<title>By: Lyndas9254</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-221967</link>
		<dc:creator>Lyndas9254</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 14:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your simple quick 5 points here.  You have hit it right on as I see since I have an understanding as well here.  Thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your simple quick 5 points here.  You have hit it right on as I see since I have an understanding as well here.  Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-1/#comment-221331</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 14:16:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I&#039;ve been very happily married for 22 years. The most significant gift I&#039;ve received in this marriage (beyond my children) is that my husband has always treated me with kindness and respect, and can always be counted upon to be my safe haven.&quot;

This is very sweet &amp; essentially summarizes all that I believe I am missing from my marriage.  We are in counseling now.  He is super touchy and If I don&#039;t LOVE everything exactly as it is he gets very defensive, nasty and hurtful.  He has no problem getting angry and not speaking to me for days, even when I have other family or work things going on I need a shoulder for.

A safe haven...that would be amazing!  I am so happy for you two.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#034;I&#039;ve been very happily married for 22 years. The most significant gift I&#039;ve received in this marriage (beyond my children) is that my husband has always treated me with kindness and respect, and can always be counted upon to be my safe haven.&#034;</p>
<p>This is very sweet &amp; essentially summarizes all that I believe I am missing from my marriage.  We are in counseling now.  He is super touchy and If I don&#039;t LOVE everything exactly as it is he gets very defensive, nasty and hurtful.  He has no problem getting angry and not speaking to me for days, even when I have other family or work things going on I need a shoulder for.</p>
<p>A safe haven&#8230;that would be amazing!  I am so happy for you two.</p>
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		<title>By: שיר במתנה</title>
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		<dc:creator>שיר במתנה</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 14:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your candor.
Thanks for the info.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your candor.<br />
Thanks for the info.</p>
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		<title>By: Best of &#8216;09 &#8211; Challenge</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-215986</link>
		<dc:creator>Best of &#8216;09 &#8211; Challenge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 21:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] more thing. I have found that if I am nervous to post something—if I think I might look bad or reveal too much or give advice that people will hate—these are the posts that people care about, because they [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] more thing. I have found that if I am nervous to post something—if I think I might look bad or reveal too much or give advice that people will hate—these are the posts that people care about, because they [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-188222</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:56:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband and I are very recently struggling in our marriage and I am very scared.  I wish I had the courage to write about it or even knew what to say.  At this moment he says he doesn&#039;t know what he wants.  I&#039;ve left the ball in his court for a week and then I must know something.  This has been the worst time of my entire life.  I&#039;m not going to make it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I are very recently struggling in our marriage and I am very scared.  I wish I had the courage to write about it or even knew what to say.  At this moment he says he doesn&#039;t know what he wants.  I&#039;ve left the ball in his court for a week and then I must know something.  This has been the worst time of my entire life.  I&#039;m not going to make it.</p>
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		<title>By: Fashion Incubator &#187; Blog Archive &#187; 8 ways to better communication</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-184179</link>
		<dc:creator>Fashion Incubator &#187; Blog Archive &#187; 8 ways to better communication</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:30:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] tactful exit from the conversation. So this morning I&#8217;m reading Penelope Trunk&#8217;s entry on communication and first on her list [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] tactful exit from the conversation. So this morning I&#039;m reading Penelope Trunk&#039;s entry on communication and first on her list [...]</p>
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		<title>By: רכב</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-183221</link>
		<dc:creator>רכב</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 08:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the info.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the info.</p>
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		<title>By: Mitch</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/28/5-communication-lessons-learned-in-marriage-counseling/comment-page-3/#comment-183199</link>
		<dc:creator>Mitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 01:28:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you&#039;re really interesting in having your kids learn to farm, Madison is a good place for that.  Troy Gardens, on the North Side, is a pioneer in urban agriculture; they sell food at the farmers market (and via CSA) and they get the community (especially kids) involved in growing the food.  Claire Strader, who leads the operation, was recently named White House Farmer in an on-line election.

Their website is at: http://www.troygardens.org/index.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#039;re really interesting in having your kids learn to farm, Madison is a good place for that.  Troy Gardens, on the North Side, is a pioneer in urban agriculture; they sell food at the farmers market (and via CSA) and they get the community (especially kids) involved in growing the food.  Claire Strader, who leads the operation, was recently named White House Farmer in an on-line election.</p>
<p>Their website is at: <a href="http://www.troygardens.org/index.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.troygardens.org/index.html</a></p>
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