Comments on: Don’t get too comfortable at home after work http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/ Advice at the intersection of work and life Sun, 20 Jul 2008 07:10:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: jomster2003 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-120998 jomster2003 Mon, 10 Dec 2007 15:52:12 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-120998 That's a nice perspective on life after work! Thanks! That’s a nice perspective on life after work! Thanks!

]]> By: Paul Williams http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-112719 Paul Williams Thu, 22 Nov 2007 22:18:53 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-112719 Thank you. Sometimes we do need a kick to get things moving. I just my cold would go so I could go run! Thank you.

Sometimes we do need a kick to get things moving.

I just my cold would go so I could go run!

]]> By: Daniel http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-112370 Daniel Tue, 20 Nov 2007 15:34:13 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-112370 I couldn't understand some parts of this article nnial 2007 - salvatore iaconesi - del.icio.us poetry, but I guess I just need to check some more resources regarding this, because it sounds interesting. I couldn’t understand some parts of this article nnial 2007 - salvatore iaconesi - del.icio.us poetry, but I guess I just need to check some more resources regarding this, because it sounds interesting.

]]> By: Dale http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111998 Dale Sun, 18 Nov 2007 05:32:44 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111998 Penny, "So stop using work as an excuse to not do anything challenging after work. You grow when you challenge yourself, and you need to grow in ways that can only happen outside of work in order to be able to grow at work as well." This was perhaps the statement that resonated most with me. For the reason that many of us also use our kids to excuse us from stretching our boundries. Now don't get me wrong, children wear you out - I know, I have alot of little ones. But I also know that I need to do something other than work 8 to 5, and be my little pony to my daughters or a rodeo bull to my sons after hours. Not only will extending my boundries make me more capable at work, but a better parent at home. Penny,

“So stop using work as an excuse to not do anything challenging after work. You grow when you challenge yourself, and you need to grow in ways that can only happen outside of work in order to be able to grow at work as well.”

This was perhaps the statement that resonated most with me. For the reason that many of us also use our kids to excuse us from stretching our boundries. Now don’t get me wrong, children wear you out - I know, I have alot of little ones. But I also know that I need to do something other than work 8 to 5, and be my little pony to my daughters or a rodeo bull to my sons after hours.
Not only will extending my boundries make me more capable at work, but a better parent at home.

]]> By: Haifa Music http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111778 Haifa Music Fri, 16 Nov 2007 11:58:59 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111778 Hi there...I Googled for hotels in haifa israel, but found your page about nnial 2007 - salvatore iaconesi - del.icio.us poetry...and have to say thanks. nice read. Hi there…I Googled for hotels in haifa israel, but found your page about nnial 2007 - salvatore iaconesi - del.icio.us poetry…and have to say thanks. nice read.

]]> By: Joyce Maroney http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111703 Joyce Maroney Thu, 15 Nov 2007 21:29:34 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111703 <p>How about spending some of that after work time stretching yourself AND helping others who need your help? Volunteer led youth organizations like scouting sorely need leaders. Non-profit organizations need volunteers and board members. Your town or city has lots of committees that need members for civic projects. I get the TIME issue - have 2 kids, a husband, a schnauzer and a full time management job myself. I do, however, serve on a non-profit board and a town committee. Even a small amount of your time can make a big difference to these organizations.</p> * * * * * * <I>Well, this comment points out a glaring problem with a lot of volunteer work -- it doesn't always stretch us. Finding volunteer work that stretches is not always easy. But might make the idea of volunteering more appealing. --Penelope</i> How about spending some of that after work time stretching yourself AND helping others who need your help? Volunteer led youth organizations like scouting sorely need leaders. Non-profit organizations need volunteers and board members. Your town or city has lots of committees that need members for civic projects. I get the TIME issue - have 2 kids, a husband, a schnauzer and a full time management job myself. I do, however, serve on a non-profit board and a town committee. Even a small amount of your time can make a big difference to these organizations.

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Well, this comment points out a glaring problem with a lot of volunteer work — it doesn’t always stretch us. Finding volunteer work that stretches is not always easy. But might make the idea of volunteering more appealing.

–Penelope

]]> By: peter vajda http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111685 peter vajda Thu, 15 Nov 2007 18:51:55 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111685 I think the "time" element is important and whether one is "investing" one's time or "spending" one's time...(think how one does this around money). One does not have to be "do-ing" to invest one's time. There are many ways to invest in time while "be-ing". You can sit and do nothing and be nothing (veging, unconscious) and you can sit and do nothing yet be someome. I think the “time” element is important and whether one is “investing” one’s time or “spending” one’s time…(think how one does this around money). One does not have to be “do-ing” to invest one’s time. There are many ways to invest in time while “be-ing”. You can sit and do nothing and be nothing (veging, unconscious) and you can sit and do nothing yet be someome.

]]> By: Gladstone http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111679 Gladstone Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:52:52 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111679 Timely. I have established an after-work routine in the last month or so that is very fulfilling. OK, I'll stop torturing you all with anticipation. Here it is: 6-7.30: eat dinner and work out on Chuck Norris Total Gym.==sustenance and maintenance 7.30: watch Pure in Heart, Korean soap opera==diversion, 'unwinding' 8-9:email, web browsing, trumpet and computer blogs and forums, with Law & Order on in the background==maintenance 9-10:read technical books about the work I do==challenge, learning 10-11:practice trumpet==learning, challenging 11+ go to bed or catch part of a movie, usually on TCM. I look forward to this and enjoy all of it. My wife enjoys me working out because she can stand there and talk to me and I can't get away. I enjoy the learning I'm doing for my job, and developing jazz improv and range skills on trumpet is very satisfying. Before I know it, it's bed time and then a new day. Sitting in front of the boob tube the whole time would be draining and depressing. So would lying in bed, which is what depressives seem to do. Chicken or egg? Timely. I have established an after-work routine in the last month or so that is very fulfilling. OK, I’ll stop torturing you all with anticipation. Here it is:

6-7.30: eat dinner and work out on Chuck Norris Total Gym.==sustenance and maintenance

7.30: watch Pure in Heart, Korean soap opera==diversion, ‘unwinding’

8-9:email, web browsing, trumpet and computer blogs and forums, with Law & Order on in the background==maintenance

9-10:read technical books about the work I do==challenge, learning

10-11:practice trumpet==learning, challenging

11+ go to bed or catch part of a movie, usually on TCM.

I look forward to this and enjoy all of it. My wife enjoys me working out because she can stand there and talk to me and I can’t get away. I enjoy the learning I’m doing for my job, and developing jazz improv and range skills on trumpet is very satisfying. Before I know it, it’s bed time and then a new day. Sitting in front of the boob tube the whole time would be draining and depressing. So would lying in bed, which is what depressives seem to do. Chicken or egg?

]]> By: Jackie http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111674 Jackie Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:11:42 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111674 I really needed to read this today so I can't thank you enough for posting this! I finished college about a year and a half ago and as soon as I graduated I got a full time job. Ever since then I have been very down. You have inspired me I am going to change things up a bit. Thanks Penelope!!! I really needed to read this today so I can’t thank you enough for posting this! I finished college about a year and a half ago and as soon as I graduated I got a full time job. Ever since then I have been very down. You have inspired me I am going to change things up a bit. Thanks Penelope!!!

]]> By: John Goodman http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111672 John Goodman Thu, 15 Nov 2007 16:57:52 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/11/14/dont-get-too-comfortable-after-work/#comment-111672 Good post! It's all about getting out of the rut we put ourselves in. It might be easier to start by changing the things we already do rather than initially finding new things to challenge us. Why not try driving a different way to work? Walk the dog a different route? Change the circuit or exercises you already do at home or the gym? These are things you're doing already; now just do them differently. This should get that old cerebral cortex chuggin' along sufficiently that you'll now want to try new and different things too! Good post!
It’s all about getting out of the rut we put ourselves in. It might be easier to start by changing the things we already do rather than initially finding new things to challenge us. Why not try driving a different way to work? Walk the dog a different route? Change the circuit or exercises you already do at home or the gym? These are things you’re doing already; now just do them differently. This should get that old cerebral cortex chuggin’ along sufficiently that you’ll now want to try new and different things too!

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