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	<title>Comments on: Me and Stephanie, talking</title>
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	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
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		<title>By: Kahlie</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/09/10/me-and-stephanie-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-264506</link>
		<dc:creator>Kahlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 11:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The link to the interview does not work anymore!</description>
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		<title>By: Assech Omega</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/09/10/me-and-stephanie-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-248507</link>
		<dc:creator>Assech Omega</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 08:16:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chineseenergetics.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;
Energy Psychology
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this is great.!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.chineseenergetics.com" rel="nofollow"><br />
Energy Psychology<br />
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<p>this is great.!</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Stefani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Stefani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 20:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s a very inspiring story for any freelance writer. Great sense of humor :) 

I&#039;m a freelance writer also, but of a smaller scale yet. Someday I may write a book :)

Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#039;s a very inspiring story for any freelance writer. Great sense of humor :) </p>
<p>I&#039;m a freelance writer also, but of a smaller scale yet. Someday I may write a book :)</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: matchmaker</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/09/10/me-and-stephanie-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-218563</link>
		<dc:creator>matchmaker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 03:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jessica - Great idea to use the George Foreman. I imagine that you could grill up slices of bread pudding, which would be a great way to serve this in summer, topped with some fresh berries.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessica &#8211; Great idea to use the George Foreman. I imagine that you could grill up slices of bread pudding, which would be a great way to serve this in summer, topped with some fresh berries.</p>
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		<title>By: Sam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 15:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent podcast. I enjoyed listening to your work process and your journey along the career path. I wish more people discussed this so that its not such a mystery to me on how people wind up where they wind up.

I may be mistaken, but I think you might have mentioned at one point that you were an introvert and that you worked very hard to become who you are today. I wouldn&#039;t mind reading more ideas on the same topic as I am very introverted. Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent podcast. I enjoyed listening to your work process and your journey along the career path. I wish more people discussed this so that its not such a mystery to me on how people wind up where they wind up.</p>
<p>I may be mistaken, but I think you might have mentioned at one point that you were an introvert and that you worked very hard to become who you are today. I wouldn&#039;t mind reading more ideas on the same topic as I am very introverted. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Joselle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joselle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 13:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was great. I second the podcast series idea. I would love to actually HEAR more on Brazen Careerist.
You mentioned doing more speaking. Any engagements coming up?

* * * * * * 
&lt;I&gt;Thanks for asking about the speaking. I have three or four lined up each month, but they are almost always private -- for the members of a given organization. I&#039;ll let everyone know when there is something public.

-Penelope&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was great. I second the podcast series idea. I would love to actually HEAR more on Brazen Careerist.<br />
You mentioned doing more speaking. Any engagements coming up?</p>
<p>* * * * * *<br />
<i>Thanks for asking about the speaking. I have three or four lined up each month, but they are almost always private &#8212; for the members of a given organization. I&#039;ll let everyone know when there is something public.</p>
<p>-Penelope</i></p>
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		<title>By: Alice Bachini-Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alice Bachini-Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 16:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really enjoyed listening to you, Penelope, it was so interesting to hear your thoughts in a different format. 

Your comments on combining work and family reminded me of a full-time mother of four I once knew, who also ran childbirth classes and a post-natal support group. When an overwhelmed new mom asked how she coped, the answer was &quot;It&#039;s easy, you just lower your standards!&quot; 

I took this to be about focussing on what really matters, and letting go of the lesser stuff. Delegating is a bit different obviously, but I think they are related. Letting go, having faith, things will be OK and there&#039;s no such thing as a perfect score in parenting because you&#039;re on a whole other CEO plane of just doing the most important stuff, with no-one &quot;above&quot; you. 

I would include breadwinning and living authentically under &quot;most important stuff&quot;- some people are not cut out to be home parents. (I wasn&#039;t even cut out to stay married to my kids&#039; dad- so we compromise, we manage, we try to make things up other ways, and in the end hopefully everyone can still get to the same place. That&#039;s life, etc.) 

So, family first, with family including both parents; not parental self-sacrifice to the point of self-harm, which is bad for kids. I think people still don&#039;t get that. 

(apologies for the lengthly not-so-on-topic comment)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really enjoyed listening to you, Penelope, it was so interesting to hear your thoughts in a different format. </p>
<p>Your comments on combining work and family reminded me of a full-time mother of four I once knew, who also ran childbirth classes and a post-natal support group. When an overwhelmed new mom asked how she coped, the answer was &#034;It&#039;s easy, you just lower your standards!&#034; </p>
<p>I took this to be about focussing on what really matters, and letting go of the lesser stuff. Delegating is a bit different obviously, but I think they are related. Letting go, having faith, things will be OK and there&#039;s no such thing as a perfect score in parenting because you&#039;re on a whole other CEO plane of just doing the most important stuff, with no-one &#034;above&#034; you. </p>
<p>I would include breadwinning and living authentically under &#034;most important stuff&#034;- some people are not cut out to be home parents. (I wasn&#039;t even cut out to stay married to my kids&#039; dad- so we compromise, we manage, we try to make things up other ways, and in the end hopefully everyone can still get to the same place. That&#039;s life, etc.) </p>
<p>So, family first, with family including both parents; not parental self-sacrifice to the point of self-harm, which is bad for kids. I think people still don&#039;t get that. </p>
<p>(apologies for the lengthly not-so-on-topic comment)</p>
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		<title>By: Carol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 18:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haven&#039;t commented before, but I&#039;ve been reading for a while and I really enjoyed that. Nice to hear your voice!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haven&#039;t commented before, but I&#039;ve been reading for a while and I really enjoyed that. Nice to hear your voice!</p>
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		<title>By: Emily DeVoto</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/09/10/me-and-stephanie-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-107689</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily DeVoto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 14:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great interview, Penelope.  I love how open and brave you are, and how your you-ness shines through in everything you do.  Your attitude and experiences are very helpful to me as I&#039;m trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up.  In particular, your insight that people who give advice need to demonstrate that they, too, are real people who need advice is really profound.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great interview, Penelope.  I love how open and brave you are, and how your you-ness shines through in everything you do.  Your attitude and experiences are very helpful to me as I&#039;m trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up.  In particular, your insight that people who give advice need to demonstrate that they, too, are real people who need advice is really profound.</p>
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		<title>By: Tiffany Monhollon</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/09/10/me-and-stephanie-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-107687</link>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany Monhollon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 14:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent interview. I loved hearing your process and more on your thoughts about blogging and career advancement. Thanks for sharing the link!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent interview. I loved hearing your process and more on your thoughts about blogging and career advancement. Thanks for sharing the link!</p>
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