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	<title>Comments on: Yahoo column: Breaking the perfection habit</title>
	<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/</link>
	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 18:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: emc2logpi</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-142576</link>
		<dc:creator>emc2logpi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 20:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-142576</guid>
		<description>I like most of this article except for this part: "Perfectionists are phony, because no one's perfect and they can't handle showing that in themselves.".

I know of very few perfectionists who think they are perfect.  In fact, most perfectionist I know (including myself) are continuously beating themselves up for not finishing projects, spending too much time on parts of the project while the important part never gets done, and generally feeling out of control when they are unable to get started due to fear of doing it wrong.

Yes, there are a few folks who think they are perfect and snootily proclaim that others are lesser, but the great majority of perfectionists that I know feel frustrated.

EMC^2</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like most of this article except for this part: &#8220;Perfectionists are phony, because no one&#8217;s perfect and they can&#8217;t handle showing that in themselves.&#8221;.</p>
<p>I know of very few perfectionists who think they are perfect.  In fact, most perfectionist I know (including myself) are continuously beating themselves up for not finishing projects, spending too much time on parts of the project while the important part never gets done, and generally feeling out of control when they are unable to get started due to fear of doing it wrong.</p>
<p>Yes, there are a few folks who think they are perfect and snootily proclaim that others are lesser, but the great majority of perfectionists that I know feel frustrated.</p>
<p>EMC^2</p>
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		<title>By: Writing without typos is totally outdated &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-140773</link>
		<dc:creator>Writing without typos is totally outdated &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-140773</guid>
		<description>[...] Perfectionism is a disease. If errors bother you a lot, consider that you might be a perfectionist, which is a disorder. Perfectionists are more likely to be depressed than other people because no amount of work seems [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Perfectionism is a disease. If errors bother you a lot, consider that you might be a perfectionist, which is a disorder. Perfectionists are more likely to be depressed than other people because no amount of work seems [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: The Most Important Rules of Delegation : PM Stories</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-135239</link>
		<dc:creator>The Most Important Rules of Delegation : PM Stories</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 18:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-135239</guid>
		<description>[...] says that our ability to do things perfectly isn’t as highly valued as we think it is. In fact, perfectionism isn’t valuable in 80 percent of the work we do and it is so unhealthy that it’s a risk factor for depression. We [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] says that our ability to do things perfectly isn’t as highly valued as we think it is. In fact, perfectionism isn’t valuable in 80 percent of the work we do and it is so unhealthy that it’s a risk factor for depression. We [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Yahoo column: 7 Ways to be a better delegatorBrazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk &#124; Techitorial Gadget Reviews and Tech Updates</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-124136</link>
		<dc:creator>Yahoo column: 7 Ways to be a better delegatorBrazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk &#124; Techitorial Gadget Reviews and Tech Updates</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 06:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-124136</guid>
		<description>[...] that your ability to do things perfectly isn’t as highly valued as you think it is. In fact, perfectionism isn’t valuable in 80 percent of the work we [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] that your ability to do things perfectly isn’t as highly valued as you think it is. In fact, perfectionism isn’t valuable in 80 percent of the work we [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: donny</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-80580</link>
		<dc:creator>donny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jun 2007 22:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-80580</guid>
		<description>Hi Penelope,

I love this article.
I can see why people who are in favor of perfectionism are actually perfectionists. Those who are arguing if a surgeon do a 70% quality job or a geographic mapper putting off 1 mm on a scaled map are missing the main purpose of the article. While it is not reasonable to trade off quality over quantity, it does not do to be meticulous and fail to deliver results and jeopardizing a project as a whole. Perfectionism is the attempt of trying (and desperately in need) to be perfect, while being a "professional" are people who are trained to make certain decisions under certain circumstances. What if this "professional" is also a "perfectionist"? Decisions would not be made and projects would fail to meet deadlines. If a surgeon looks through every single detail to the point where his stitches have to be perfectly aligned, each stitch has to be 1/2 mm, not too close, not too far,.... etc. How much time would be wasted while he could've treated other patients. 
Being perfect at what you do does not mean you are a perfectionist. Trying to be perfect does not necessarily make you perfect at what you do either. There has to be a line drawn between quantity and quality.
I never had a true education in the US, therefor, my writing skills are far from perfect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Penelope,</p>
<p>I love this article.<br />
I can see why people who are in favor of perfectionism are actually perfectionists. Those who are arguing if a surgeon do a 70% quality job or a geographic mapper putting off 1 mm on a scaled map are missing the main purpose of the article. While it is not reasonable to trade off quality over quantity, it does not do to be meticulous and fail to deliver results and jeopardizing a project as a whole. Perfectionism is the attempt of trying (and desperately in need) to be perfect, while being a &#8220;professional&#8221; are people who are trained to make certain decisions under certain circumstances. What if this &#8220;professional&#8221; is also a &#8220;perfectionist&#8221;? Decisions would not be made and projects would fail to meet deadlines. If a surgeon looks through every single detail to the point where his stitches have to be perfectly aligned, each stitch has to be 1/2 mm, not too close, not too far,&#8230;. etc. How much time would be wasted while he could&#8217;ve treated other patients.<br />
Being perfect at what you do does not mean you are a perfectionist. Trying to be perfect does not necessarily make you perfect at what you do either. There has to be a line drawn between quantity and quality.<br />
I never had a true education in the US, therefor, my writing skills are far from perfect.</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65982</link>
		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2007 02:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65982</guid>
		<description>It would be even hard if you were married to a perfectionist. I've seen some movies depicting the life of a perfectionist and I just can't imagine living with that kind of person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It would be even hard if you were married to a perfectionist. I&#8217;ve seen some movies depicting the life of a perfectionist and I just can&#8217;t imagine living with that kind of person.</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Link Bankruptcy &#171; Great Presentations Mean Business</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65140</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Link Bankruptcy &#171; Great Presentations Mean Business</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2007 02:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65140</guid>
		<description>[...] 30 Apr 2007 Blog Link&#160;Bankruptcy Posted by pistachiolaura under Uncategorized&#160;  Lotsa bloggers been declaring &#8220;emailbankruptcy&#8221; lately, deleting wholesale their inbox contents and publicly announcing that anyone with an important, recent email should just send it again. Cool idea. But it&#8217;s my blog bookmarks folder that&#8217;s outta hand. Call this is horrible, lazy blogging, but I&#8217;m doing it anyway. Below is my current backlog of presentations links to blog about. I promise to explain the more important ones in later posts, but I need this clean break for the moment&#8230; Call it trying to be less of a perfectionist. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] 30 Apr 2007 Blog Link&nbsp;Bankruptcy Posted by pistachiolaura under Uncategorized&nbsp;  Lotsa bloggers been declaring &#8220;emailbankruptcy&#8221; lately, deleting wholesale their inbox contents and publicly announcing that anyone with an important, recent email should just send it again. Cool idea. But it&#8217;s my blog bookmarks folder that&#8217;s outta hand. Call this is horrible, lazy blogging, but I&#8217;m doing it anyway. Below is my current backlog of presentations links to blog about. I promise to explain the more important ones in later posts, but I need this clean break for the moment&#8230; Call it trying to be less of a perfectionist. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Fran</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65139</link>
		<dc:creator>Fran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2007 02:15:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-65139</guid>
		<description>I agree with you. Being a perfectionist surely invovles a lot of time.  Big mistakes cause us to do it all over again to make it right. How much more will a perfectionist waste time in minute details?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you. Being a perfectionist surely invovles a lot of time.  Big mistakes cause us to do it all over again to make it right. How much more will a perfectionist waste time in minute details?</p>
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		<title>By: Ruby</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-64349</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 16:39:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-64349</guid>
		<description>When will the world ever learn.  My dear Penelope, "hate" is such a strong word and it leads to negativity and crimes against humanity. Weren't you taught to hate the perfection and not the perfectionists?  Hate leads to wars and I don't think a war between the good enoughs and perfectionists would be a very close one.  While the Just OKs were busy arming and defending themselves in the manner that suits them, the perfectionists would be focused on getting the job of eliminating them done with neat precision.  Wouldn't be enough of your kind left to hate anybody once the smoke cleared.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When will the world ever learn.  My dear Penelope, &#8220;hate&#8221; is such a strong word and it leads to negativity and crimes against humanity. Weren&#8217;t you taught to hate the perfection and not the perfectionists?  Hate leads to wars and I don&#8217;t think a war between the good enoughs and perfectionists would be a very close one.  While the Just OKs were busy arming and defending themselves in the manner that suits them, the perfectionists would be focused on getting the job of eliminating them done with neat precision.  Wouldn&#8217;t be enough of your kind left to hate anybody once the smoke cleared.</p>
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		<title>By: Reluctant Blogger &#187; Miscellaneous Links Thursday - &#8220;It&#8217;ll have to do.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-64154</link>
		<dc:creator>Reluctant Blogger &#187; Miscellaneous Links Thursday - &#8220;It&#8217;ll have to do.&#8221;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 05:55:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/04/26/yahoo-column-breaking-the-perfection-habit/#comment-64154</guid>
		<description>[...] Penelope Trunk a.k.a. the Brazen Careerist has a useful little essay on perfectionism up at Yahoo finance.&#160; Almost as interesting to me as the original piece is the response from the readership there. Two stars based on &#62; 1000 votes? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Penelope Trunk a.k.a. the Brazen Careerist has a useful little essay on perfectionism up at Yahoo finance.&nbsp; Almost as interesting to me as the original piece is the response from the readership there. Two stars based on &gt; 1000 votes? [&#8230;]</p>
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