Comments on: Coachology: Creating a path through your twenties http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/ Advice at the intersection of work and life Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:18:15 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Ryan @ Planting Dollars http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-217100 Ryan @ Planting Dollars Thu, 31 Dec 2009 05:08:58 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-217100 Spot on post... take risks, be smart with your money, live way below your means and explore! I'm having a blast doing these things! I think the hardest one for me to follow is #1 as I'm a tad impatient and want everything to fall into place. Starting to realize that I need to simply enjoy what I'm doing each day rather than hoping for some miracle for everything to be perfect. All we really have is today. Spot on post… take risks, be smart with your money, live way below your means and explore! I'm having a blast doing these things!

I think the hardest one for me to follow is #1 as I'm a tad impatient and want everything to fall into place. Starting to realize that I need to simply enjoy what I'm doing each day rather than hoping for some miracle for everything to be perfect. All we really have is today.

]]> By: twenty-somethings.com » Blog Archive » From the Archives: Career Advice http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-185895 twenty-somethings.com » Blog Archive » From the Archives: Career Advice Tue, 19 May 2009 14:24:20 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-185895 [...] It’s kinda comforting to be told to takes some risks and calm down about debt. The Brazen Careerist offers up advice for ‘Creating a Path Through Your Twenties‘. [...] [...] It's kinda comforting to be told to takes some risks and calm down about debt. The Brazen Careerist offers up advice for 'Creating a Path Through Your Twenties'. [...]

]]> By: If you put in the effort, someone will notice | TalentEgg Career Incubator http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-182503 If you put in the effort, someone will notice | TalentEgg Career Incubator Sat, 14 Mar 2009 03:12:27 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-182503 [...] As an unmarried, childless twenty-something working hundreds of kilometres below the earth’s surface in a mine in the early 1980s, he probably had no idea what his career would look like at age 52. He could have followed almost any path. [...] [...] As an unmarried, childless twenty-something working hundreds of kilometres below the earth’s surface in a mine in the early 1980s, he probably had no idea what his career would look like at age 52. He could have followed almost any path. [...]

]]> By: Weekly Quarterlife Links | Quarterlives.com http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-155523 Weekly Quarterlife Links | Quarterlives.com Wed, 23 Jul 2008 04:09:22 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-155523 [...] Advice from a Brazen Careerist. Coachology: Creating a Path Through Your Twenties [...] [...] Advice from a Brazen Careerist. Coachology: Creating a Path Through Your Twenties [...]

]]> By: Weekly Quarterlife Links | Quarterlives.com http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-149324 Weekly Quarterlife Links | Quarterlives.com Wed, 25 Jun 2008 03:15:33 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-149324 [...] Some steps to help you through the twenty something stumble. Coachology: Creating a path through your twenties [...] [...] Some steps to help you through the twenty something stumble. Coachology: Creating a path through your twenties [...]

]]> By: ashna http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-103953 ashna Sat, 14 Jul 2007 08:38:50 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-103953 I agree that until we take some risks in life and try different options, it is hard to know for sure what we really want in life. I can say it from personal experience. Having raised in a cultured family, some boundaries and limitations are highly expected. But I earned my trust and I think my parents are pretty ok with my decision making and taking my life in my hands, my way. So yeah, I am excited because I will be moving out soon, and also I intend to look into a study abroad session for a semester before I graduate. Thanks for the good points :) I agree that until we take some risks in life and try different options, it is hard to know for sure what we really want in life. I can say it from personal experience. Having raised in a cultured family, some boundaries and limitations are highly expected. But I earned my trust and I think my parents are pretty ok with my decision making and taking my life in my hands, my way. So yeah, I am excited because I will be moving out soon, and also I intend to look into a study abroad session for a semester before I graduate.

Thanks for the good points :)

]]> By: Six strands for success - lifehack.org http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-54878 Six strands for success - lifehack.org Tue, 10 Apr 2007 02:26:45 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-54878 [...] Coachology: Creating a path through your twenties [...] [...] Coachology: Creating a path through your twenties [...]

]]> By: Aaron Erickson http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-45970 Aaron Erickson Tue, 20 Mar 2007 14:40:55 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-45970 6. Upon first job our of college, contribute to your 401k at the maximum you can stand, put the money into a good index fund, and forget about it. You will thank yourself for the rest of your life for your austerity. All these people talking about job security in other threads don't realize that you can take more risks with your job when you are rich. Its very hard to stand up to your boss and tell them that they are wrong when you have to worry about the idea that losing your next check could make you homeless. On the other hand, when you combine a good asset base with the ability to consume very little, you buy yourself the freedom to truly persue your dreams. 6. Upon first job our of college, contribute to your 401k at the maximum you can stand, put the money into a good index fund, and forget about it.

You will thank yourself for the rest of your life for your austerity. All these people talking about job security in other threads don't realize that you can take more risks with your job when you are rich. Its very hard to stand up to your boss and tell them that they are wrong when you have to worry about the idea that losing your next check could make you homeless.

On the other hand, when you combine a good asset base with the ability to consume very little, you buy yourself the freedom to truly persue your dreams.

]]> By: Rambler. http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-44515 Rambler. Sat, 17 Mar 2007 15:52:19 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-44515 I seem to beging all my discussions with you with a dilemma, but here it is, hoping your question at the end was not just formailty. I would chose to disagree with you regarding professional help. I myself sometimes feel not so excited, but wouldnt say there is nothing in this world that excites me. I feel lack of excitement shows lack of priorities in life. And generally people lack priority only when they trying to find new ones. After chasing something for so long in life, for example education a hefty paying job, they fail to add to their priorities. I feel this is definitely temporary and some get new interests from friends, some find their own, and Interests themselves find a fortunate few. Its really nice to discuss with you these things. And Its even more nice to find a person who thinks about these things. <strong>* * * * * *</strong> <i>It sounds like you are excited about finding new priorities. That seems like a good place to be. And very different than not excited about anything. --Penelope</I> I seem to beging all my discussions with you with a dilemma, but here it is, hoping your question at the end was not just formailty.

I would chose to disagree with you regarding professional help. I myself sometimes feel not so excited, but wouldnt say there is nothing in this world that excites me.

I feel lack of excitement shows lack of priorities in life. And generally people lack priority only when they trying to find new ones. After chasing something for so long in life, for example education a hefty paying job, they fail to add to their priorities.
I feel this is definitely temporary and some get new interests from friends, some find their own, and Interests themselves find a fortunate few.
Its really nice to discuss with you these things. And Its even more nice to find a person who thinks about these things.

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It sounds like you are excited about finding new priorities. That seems like a good place to be. And very different than not excited about anything.

–Penelope

]]> By: Rambler. http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/comment-page-1/#comment-44499 Rambler. Sat, 17 Mar 2007 15:31:12 +0000 http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/03/16/coachology-creating-a-path-to-through-your-twenties/#comment-44499 Thanks a lot for such a fast response. If I could add to my question, there are few people who do not know what is important, and few others who think there is nothing important in life and may be temporary but nothing seems to excite them, What would you say to people of the second category. * * * * * * <I>I am pretty sure that people who are not excited by anything are depressed and need professional help. Excitement about stuff is, of course, not completely rational. We are all going to die, nothing lasts forever, we do not know the meaning of life, etc. But still, part of being human is an ability to get excited by things. I think part of the reason we don't all go jump off a bridge right now is that we think that aroud the corner there will be another thing that is fun, exciting, makes us happy. This is a core part of being human, I think. Believeing that and being curious about what's next. That's why I think that someone who cannot be excited by anything has a mental disorder and would benefit from professional help. I think about this all the time, but it's a tough topic. And I wonder what other people think. Do people agree/disgaree with me? -Penelope</I> Thanks a lot for such a fast response. If I could add to my question, there are few people who do not know what is important, and few others who think there is nothing important in life and may be temporary but nothing seems to excite them, What would you say to people of the second category.

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I am pretty sure that people who are not excited by anything are depressed and need professional help.

Excitement about stuff is, of course, not completely rational. We are all going to die, nothing lasts forever, we do not know the meaning of life, etc.

But still, part of being human is an ability to get excited by things. I think part of the reason we don't all go jump off a bridge right now is that we think that aroud the corner there will be another thing that is fun, exciting, makes us happy. This is a core part of being human, I think. Believeing that and being curious about what's next.

That's why I think that someone who cannot be excited by anything has a mental disorder and would benefit from professional help.

I think about this all the time, but it's a tough topic. And I wonder what other people think. Do people agree/disgaree with me?

-Penelope

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