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		<title>By: How to start 2010 by doing better work &#124; Broadcasting Brain - different thoughts about thinking differently</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-217276</link>
		<dc:creator>How to start 2010 by doing better work &#124; Broadcasting Brain - different thoughts about thinking differently</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 12:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to get paid for stuff like that? Stop demanding so much from work and demand more from yourself. Be kind and generous at work &#8211; with time and energy &#8212; and your work will be better. Focus on the people you love and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to get paid for stuff like that? Stop demanding so much from work and demand more from yourself. Be kind and generous at work &#8211; with time and energy &#8212; and your work will be better. Focus on the people you love and [...]</p>
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		<title>By: T.</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-200772</link>
		<dc:creator>T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 22:35:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;life is short, why spend endless hours making money for somebody that you don&#039;t care for when you can spend it making money for yourself?&quot;


Wow. I think that quote along sums up why &quot;Business Management&quot; is the top major at my university. People want to manage themselves and feel in control of their own destiny while getting direct returns on their investments!

Office politics...blahhh</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#034;life is short, why spend endless hours making money for somebody that you don&#039;t care for when you can spend it making money for yourself?&#034;</p>
<p>Wow. I think that quote along sums up why &#034;Business Management&#034; is the top major at my university. People want to manage themselves and feel in control of their own destiny while getting direct returns on their investments!</p>
<p>Office politics&#8230;blahhh</p>
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		<title>By: May Knowme</title>
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		<dc:creator>May Knowme</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 18:07:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do not want to do good at office politics.  I refuse.  Therefore, I will likely starve.   I still refuse.  It is stupid and beneath me.  And no, selling out is not good for your soul.  Compromising with a type of behavior just so that you can temporarily satiate a bunch of incompetent and unintelligent goons (who you would otherwise have nothing to do with) is not the way I am going to spend my life.  No thank you! There has to be another way.  And if there isn&#039;t another way, I will die trying to find it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do not want to do good at office politics.  I refuse.  Therefore, I will likely starve.   I still refuse.  It is stupid and beneath me.  And no, selling out is not good for your soul.  Compromising with a type of behavior just so that you can temporarily satiate a bunch of incompetent and unintelligent goons (who you would otherwise have nothing to do with) is not the way I am going to spend my life.  No thank you! There has to be another way.  And if there isn&#039;t another way, I will die trying to find it.</p>
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		<title>By: Leading Associates &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Office Politics: Lessons Learned from a Young Professional</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-183997</link>
		<dc:creator>Leading Associates &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Office Politics: Lessons Learned from a Young Professional</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 23:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] need to promote your successes, but also take ownership for your mistakes. Be likeable. There&#8217;s a way to promote yourself tactfully, not pushy and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Snake</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-183112</link>
		<dc:creator>Snake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to work in an office but I was always criticized for not having friends at work.  My goal was to become an educator but the office did not support said goal so my college friends told me to keep my mouth shut and do my job.  I did do my job correctly but I had no idea how to participate at a meeting.  A stool-pigeon coworker got on my case when she saw me practicing solving quadratic equations (I was prepping for my teacher test) and she hated it when I&#039;d not hang out with office people and instead, drove to new Jersey to see my college buds.  She&#039;d rat me out if I was one minute late in  the morning (personally I felt she should&#039;ve worried more about her two kids and husband rather than what I was up to) but I think that everyone has the right to do their job without the hassle of being competitive in the corporate world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to work in an office but I was always criticized for not having friends at work.  My goal was to become an educator but the office did not support said goal so my college friends told me to keep my mouth shut and do my job.  I did do my job correctly but I had no idea how to participate at a meeting.  A stool-pigeon coworker got on my case when she saw me practicing solving quadratic equations (I was prepping for my teacher test) and she hated it when I&#039;d not hang out with office people and instead, drove to new Jersey to see my college buds.  She&#039;d rat me out if I was one minute late in  the morning (personally I felt she should&#039;ve worried more about her two kids and husband rather than what I was up to) but I think that everyone has the right to do their job without the hassle of being competitive in the corporate world.</p>
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		<title>By: Jace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 05:33:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Always take the high road.  I.e., never talk bad about someone to the boss as a strategy for responding to the feeling that they are doing the same about you (even thought they may be nice to you to your face).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Always take the high road.  I.e., never talk bad about someone to the boss as a strategy for responding to the feeling that they are doing the same about you (even thought they may be nice to you to your face).</p>
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		<title>By: damien</title>
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		<dc:creator>damien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 03:23:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your post is refreshing although i may not be able to agree to everything you said. You are definitely right about not being able to avoid politics. 

i have been job hopping because i simply cannot stand being embroiled in politics. Some people just turn out to be inept at dealing with really annoying human beings. I have made some sincere friends though, but most colleagues are just really out to get somebody under their shoes just to get ahead. 

As i reflect on the past 8 working years, i found out that working for somebody isn&#039;t my cup of tea. For those out there who are being suck-ups and playing the field, good luck to you. I am heading for my own business and while i cannot avoid politics, at least i am playing politics with my clients to make money FOR MYSELF instead of doing it for the sake of some invisible &quot;prospects&quot; of getting ahead.

i once posed this question to a friend of mine who is quite successful in the construction business,&quot; why would you want to risk everything to gamble on this risky business?&quot;

his answer was simple and yet most profound. &quot;life is short, why spend endless hours making money for somebody that you don&#039;t care for when you can spend it making money for yourself?&quot;

For those out there who think alike, go out and explore. The world is a big place, i am sure there is a place where &quot;negative, non conformist&quot; people like us can grow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your post is refreshing although i may not be able to agree to everything you said. You are definitely right about not being able to avoid politics. </p>
<p>i have been job hopping because i simply cannot stand being embroiled in politics. Some people just turn out to be inept at dealing with really annoying human beings. I have made some sincere friends though, but most colleagues are just really out to get somebody under their shoes just to get ahead. </p>
<p>As i reflect on the past 8 working years, i found out that working for somebody isn&#039;t my cup of tea. For those out there who are being suck-ups and playing the field, good luck to you. I am heading for my own business and while i cannot avoid politics, at least i am playing politics with my clients to make money FOR MYSELF instead of doing it for the sake of some invisible &#034;prospects&#034; of getting ahead.</p>
<p>i once posed this question to a friend of mine who is quite successful in the construction business,&#034; why would you want to risk everything to gamble on this risky business?&#034;</p>
<p>his answer was simple and yet most profound. &#034;life is short, why spend endless hours making money for somebody that you don&#039;t care for when you can spend it making money for yourself?&#034;</p>
<p>For those out there who think alike, go out and explore. The world is a big place, i am sure there is a place where &#034;negative, non conformist&#034; people like us can grow.</p>
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		<title>By: Around the Nine #7 at BrianGilham.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Around the Nine #7 at BrianGilham.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 00:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Brazen Careerist: Office Politics is About Being Nice [...]</description>
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		<title>By: THE ORDER OF REALM &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Brazen Careerist</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-170620</link>
		<dc:creator>THE ORDER OF REALM &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Brazen Careerist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 23:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] These are the same people who fail at office politics because they don&#8217;t understand that office politics is about being nice. Networking is what you do when you&#8217;re doing office politics [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Thoughts &#187; Blog Archive &#187; While I don&#8217;t hate networking, I know that I need help with it: I thought I&#8217;d record this for self help but if anyone else can use it (an article on networking):</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/25/office-politics-is-about-being-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-170003</link>
		<dc:creator>Thoughts &#187; Blog Archive &#187; While I don&#8217;t hate networking, I know that I need help with it: I thought I&#8217;d record this for self help but if anyone else can use it (an article on networking):</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 02:15:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] These are the same people who fail at office politics because they don&#8217;t understand that office politics is about being nice. Networking is what you do when you&#8217;re doing office politics [...]</description>
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