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	<title>Comments on: Dealing with social awkwardness at work: Insights from the autism community</title>
	<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/</link>
	<description>Advice at the intersection of work and life</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 02:18:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Girl&#8217;s guide to getting the guy at work &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-146154</link>
		<dc:creator>Girl&#8217;s guide to getting the guy at work &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-146154</guid>
		<description>[...] is full of knowledge workers, who are paid because they do a good job of synthesizing information  the missed cues will probably be even [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] is full of knowledge workers, who are paid because they do a good job of synthesizing information  the missed cues will probably be even [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Writing without typos is totally outdated &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-140693</link>
		<dc:creator>Writing without typos is totally outdated &#187; Brazen Careerist by Penelope Trunk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-140693</guid>
		<description>[...] Many people with dyslexia are very smart. Most kids who win spelling bees have many signs of Asperger&#8217;s syndrome (see the documentary on this, which I love). This means that many amazing spellers actually have brains that are developing intellectual skills (in this case, spelling skills) at the expense of social skills. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Many people with dyslexia are very smart. Most kids who win spelling bees have many signs of Asperger&#8217;s syndrome (see the documentary on this, which I love). This means that many amazing spellers actually have brains that are developing intellectual skills (in this case, spelling skills) at the expense of social skills. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: jrandom42</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-133868</link>
		<dc:creator>jrandom42</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 22:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-133868</guid>
		<description>‘The point is that people judge your work skills as incompetent if you are not likeable — no matter what your work skills are.’

Tell you what. When the company is losing a million dollars for every hour the corporate network is down, I'll just let the much more likeable, but totally clueless and incompetent co worker fix it himself.

We'll see how much of the company is left when he gets it done.

Thanks for making it acceptable for management to discriminate against us Aspies, for as long as the companies manage to survive the rule of the likeable but incompetent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>‘The point is that people judge your work skills as incompetent if you are not likeable — no matter what your work skills are.’</p>
<p>Tell you what. When the company is losing a million dollars for every hour the corporate network is down, I&#8217;ll just let the much more likeable, but totally clueless and incompetent co worker fix it himself.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll see how much of the company is left when he gets it done.</p>
<p>Thanks for making it acceptable for management to discriminate against us Aspies, for as long as the companies manage to survive the rule of the likeable but incompetent.</p>
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		<title>By: The art of socialising &#171; Blabber</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-124843</link>
		<dc:creator>The art of socialising &#171; Blabber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 13:41:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-124843</guid>
		<description>[...] So help your kids to form intimate relationships with peers, and help yourself, too. In fact, as an adult you can learn how to compensate for lack of social skills by watching how schools are teaching the kids to do it. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] So help your kids to form intimate relationships with peers, and help yourself, too. In fact, as an adult you can learn how to compensate for lack of social skills by watching how schools are teaching the kids to do it. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: annalaura brown</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-60718</link>
		<dc:creator>annalaura brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2007 14:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-60718</guid>
		<description>Good Post, I agree that children on the autism spectrum need to be taught to ephasize their strengths and to compensate for their weaknesses. My parents did a great job with this with me and I think that is one of the reasons I am doing so well as an adult today.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Post, I agree that children on the autism spectrum need to be taught to ephasize their strengths and to compensate for their weaknesses. My parents did a great job with this with me and I think that is one of the reasons I am doing so well as an adult today.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-51126</link>
		<dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2007 00:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-51126</guid>
		<description>I enjoyed the article but I have to disagree with the statement: 'The point is that people judge your work skills as incompetent if you are not likeable — no matter what your work skills are.'

I think this varies a lot depending on the environment. I work in an engineering organization where (at least at the low/mid levels) having the right answer is paramount to anything else. There are quite a few people who can be very difficult to deal with. They go unchecked because they are among the best in the company at what they do. Their ability is never questioned and they are consistently called into projects that demand quality. The bottom line seems to be: A lot is tolerated if you can produce the goods. I find this consistent in a lot of companies with engineers.

* * * * * * *
&lt;em&gt;Joe, current management research shows that companys suffer  more than they benefit from keeping around a genius who is difficult to deal with. Bob Sutton, professor at Stanford, has a bunch of this research in his new book The No Asshole Rule. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;The people who always have the right answer always think they are the exception. But they are not. In order to maintain a highly productive workplace, everyone needs to be nice to eachother, not just the dumb people.

--Penelope&lt;/I&gt;

&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed the article but I have to disagree with the statement: &#8216;The point is that people judge your work skills as incompetent if you are not likeable — no matter what your work skills are.&#8217;</p>
<p>I think this varies a lot depending on the environment. I work in an engineering organization where (at least at the low/mid levels) having the right answer is paramount to anything else. There are quite a few people who can be very difficult to deal with. They go unchecked because they are among the best in the company at what they do. Their ability is never questioned and they are consistently called into projects that demand quality. The bottom line seems to be: A lot is tolerated if you can produce the goods. I find this consistent in a lot of companies with engineers.</p>
<p>* * * * * * *<br />
<em>Joe, current management research shows that companys suffer  more than they benefit from keeping around a genius who is difficult to deal with. Bob Sutton, professor at Stanford, has a bunch of this research in his new book The No Asshole Rule. </em><em>The people who always have the right answer always think they are the exception. But they are not. In order to maintain a highly productive workplace, everyone needs to be nice to eachother, not just the dumb people.</p>
<p>&#8211;Penelope</p>
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		<title>By: The one skill you need for three key areas of career growth &#187; Brazen Careerist</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-39504</link>
		<dc:creator>The one skill you need for three key areas of career growth &#187; Brazen Careerist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2007 20:35:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-39504</guid>
		<description>[...] Another example is the new definition of what make a child a special needs student. Today many children who can read at age three are tagged as needing extra help in school because of signs of poorly developing social skills. Fifteen years ago those kids would have slipped through the system as eccentric geniuses. Today social skills are seen as so important to an education that they supersede IQ in terms of educational placement. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Another example is the new definition of what make a child a special needs student. Today many children who can read at age three are tagged as needing extra help in school because of signs of poorly developing social skills. Fifteen years ago those kids would have slipped through the system as eccentric geniuses. Today social skills are seen as so important to an education that they supersede IQ in terms of educational placement. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Recruiting Animal</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20787</link>
		<dc:creator>Recruiting Animal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 21:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20787</guid>
		<description>Your blog machinery hates me. I thought I posted a link to an article by Norman Doidge about Shadow Syndromes in which he claims that techies have a mild case of autism.

Their attention moves to slowly to pick up social cues but because it moves so slow allows them to see more detail than the average joe.

&lt;a href="http://www.jewishworldreview.com/cols/doidge012201.asp" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.jewishworldreview.com/cols/doidge012201.asp&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;strong&gt;* * * * *&lt;/strong&gt;

&lt;i&gt;

Really liked this article. Thanks.

-P

&lt;/I&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your blog machinery hates me. I thought I posted a link to an article by Norman Doidge about Shadow Syndromes in which he claims that techies have a mild case of autism.</p>
<p>Their attention moves to slowly to pick up social cues but because it moves so slow allows them to see more detail than the average joe.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jewishworldreview.com/cols/doidge012201.asp" rel="nofollow">http://www.jewishworldreview.com/cols/doidge012201.asp</a></p>
<p><strong>* * * * *</strong></p>
<p><i></p>
<p>Really liked this article. Thanks.</p>
<p>-P</p>
<p></i></p>
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		<title>By: Office politics is about being nice &#187; Brazen Careerist</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20725</link>
		<dc:creator>Office politics is about being nice &#187; Brazen Careerist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 15:46:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20725</guid>
		<description>[...] Office politics is inescapable because it&#8217;s about dealing with the people. A small percentage of people are mentally unable to understand office politics. The rest of you need to get with the program. Because where there is a group of people &#8212; anywhere, even on the playground - there is politics. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Office politics is inescapable because it&#8217;s about dealing with the people. A small percentage of people are mentally unable to understand office politics. The rest of you need to get with the program. Because where there is a group of people &#8212; anywhere, even on the playground - there is politics. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Galba Bright</title>
		<link>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20373</link>
		<dc:creator>Galba Bright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2007 16:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2007/01/21/learn-from-autism-how-to-deal-with-social-awkwardness-at-work/#comment-20373</guid>
		<description>Hello Penelope:

I was responding to your comment about "Management How Tos"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Penelope:</p>
<p>I was responding to your comment about &#8220;Management How Tos&#8221;</p>
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