Countless workplace studies have shown that a diverse staff is likely to outperform a homogenous staff. So with all this talk about diversity, why are we still hanging Christmas wreaths at work?
Not everyone at the office celebrates Christmas, and acting as if everyone has the “holiday spirit” squelches the spirit of workplace diversity.
Diversity in the workplace is not “diverse religious expression.” Diversity should express itself in how people approach business problems. Religion is not appropriate at work in the same way that politics is not appropriate; both are divisive.
Corporate events that are tied to religion make people who don’t practice that religion feel like outsiders and therefore inhibit diversity. (And those of you who think Happy Holidays is non-sectarian, please realize that almost all non-Christians I know hear “Happy Holidays” as “Merry Christmas to those of you who do not celebrate it.”)
For me, the Christmas problem starts early – at Yom Kippur, which usually falls in September. This is the most important holiday for Jews, but I have never gotten this holiday off from work. I take vacation days to observe Yom Kippur. And I don’t complain about using my vacation days because it is absurd to think everyone should stop working because the Jews have a holiday.
But as workers, Jews have to observe Christmas. For us, it’s a weird day to be off from work. No stores are open. There’s nothing on TV. Most restaurants are closed. It’s a boring day, a good day to be at work. So when Christmas rolls around, many Jews would be happy to work on the 25th and have a more useful day off. But we are forced to take a holiday.
Given the nothingness of Christmas to most Jews, it is absurd how much Christmas cheer that Jews partake in just to fit in at the office.
Vendors send Christmas cards, co-workers say “Happy Holidays,” clients expect Christmas gifts. Jews partake in all these moments because the best way to succeed at work is to fit in. The bottom line is that Jews are forced to be what they are not in order to fit in, and that is never good when you’re trying to promote the diverse expression of ideas.
I can already hear the uproar: “Christmas is not about religion!” It’s always the Christians who say that. Christmas is about religion because Christians celebrate Christmas.
Jews don’t do Christmas. Muslims don’t do Christmas. Buddhists don’t do Christmas. And no one rants and raves about how religious or nonreligious Christmas is except the Christians. That’s because they feel they have authority over the holiday – it’s theirs.
Here’s an exercise for those of you who have gotten to the bottom of this column and are infuriated (I know you’re there – you send e-mail to me every December): Try to see my point of view. Even if you don’t agree with me, acknowledge that my point of view represents a minority in the workplace. If you cannot step outside yourself and see things from a minority perspective, you will not be able to manage minorities. And if you want your career to be upwardly mobile, you need to be able to manage diversity.
If you want to be kind and generous and contribute to peace on earth in the New Year, help minorities to fit in. Open your mind to experiences that are different than your own. Look at ways your office makes diversity difficult and fix them. You can start by getting rid of those Christmas wreaths.
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I am so burned out on Christmas. I’m sick of carols and trees and people who are so X-massed out. I am pagan/new age Wiccan/heathen by choice, and I find myself wanting to express my spirituality on the Solstices and the Equinoxes and cross-quarter days at work as well as at home. But why bother? I’m certainly not trying to evangelize anyone. That’s rude.
Posted by Charlotte Babb on December 20, 2010 at 2:08 pm | permalink |
First off, as a Christian, I get a little annoyed when non-Christians–as well as some people calling themselves Christians–think that Christmas is the most important Christian holiday, much the same way I’m sure Jews are annoyed when people wish them a happy Chanukah yet have no idea when Yom Kippur is. While it is important, it has nowhere near the religious significance of Easter, and you don’t see many companies having Easter parties. (Not to mention that historically, its placement on the calendar is religiously meaningless and likely inaccurate, a friendly reminder that even the early church had to reach a diverse audience for success.)
Part of the reason for this misconception, though, is that these days, there are two different Christmases: one that involves readings from the book of Luke, nativity scenes, and choruses from Handel’s Messiah; and another (which, to borrow a page from Homestar Runner’s book, I’ll call Decemberween) that involves Santa Claus, reindeer, evergreen trees, and presents, as well as countless commercials and sales. While Christmas is very much a Christian holiday, and has no place in the office (especially not in a party obligatory for all employees), Decemberween has become mostly an American holiday, created by businesses, like a more successful Valentine’s Day. The Bible has no account of Santa Claus, nor instructions for gift-giving, and it is in this sense that I think it’s fair to say that Christmas, in the form celebrated by most businesses, is not a Christian holiday.
It is Decemberween, not Christmas, that we are really talking about when we throw Christmas parties, wish people “Happy Holidays” (Chanukah, by the way, has been similarly warped into a gift-giving holiday, because Jews’ money is just as good as Christians’ at Best Buy), and try to get people to do their Christmas shopping at our store. Decemberween, it must be remembered, has become an essential part of the American business cycle, with many companies doing more business in the month of December than the rest of the year combined. Decemberween, when not rolled together with Christmas (as most companies are careful to make sure of), should not be any more offensive to anyone than Thanksgiving and the 4th of July (and I don’t think it’s overly nativist of me to say if you don’t like Thanksgiving you can get the hell out).Point being, I think a friendly Decemberween party can be a perfectly acceptable part of a diverse workplace.
Furthermore, I disagree with the point that religion and politics are divisive. I think the way to encourage diversity is to bring more of people’s differences into the workplace for discussion and appreciation, not push it out. Taking such a synthetic, sanitary approach to diversity results in a workplace of people who, even if they aren’t all the same, all act the same, thereby defeating the point.
PS-I think it’s both presumptuous and inaccurate to say that all non-Christians “don’t do Christmas” and “do not want to celebrate their holidays with the majority”. I have Jewish friends that both love Christmas and love sharing Passover and Rosh Hashanah with me.
PPS-from a Christian point of view, while I’m okay with Decemberween and Christmas coexisting, I’m not altogether comfortable with the way they’ve been rolled together–even if done as adorably as in “A Charlie Brown Christmas”–and think we could do with still more secularization of Christmas, i.e. separation of Christmas and Decemberween.
Posted by DrewGriz on December 21, 2010 at 2:26 am | permalink |
The way that most people celebrate Christmas these days makes the holiday to me seem idiotic. I do not celebrate Christmas because the whole idea of buying gifts for people (a lot out of obligation) just doesn’t seem right if the point is to celebrate Christ. You would think all the money spent on people who already have enough would be used to help the needy. And I don’t mean donating a toy or a couple of canned goods. It is annoying at work to be assigned the task of decorating the office Christmas tree or taking it down. Whoever’s idea it was to put it up should do all of the work. Another issue for me is being forced to celebrate workplace birthdays. I do not want a card passed to me on my desk where I am supposed to write something in it for a coworker I don’t even know or care for. One time all of us were asked to bring a gift for a baby shower so that it could be mailed in a box to an executive’s wife. Here I am making $12 an hour and I am supposed to spend my money on an executive who is making six figures. Now I did like this particular person but the principle of it was all wrong. Because if you don’t participate then you are treated like an outsider. Employers really do need to keep religion and birthdays etc. out of the workplace. Are we still little kids that we have to have everyone know it is my birthday today? Nobody cares.
Posted by scrooge on December 25, 2010 at 12:11 pm | permalink |
At the risk of being VERY politically incorrect (so I will 1st state I understand your view – being Buddhist – and loving Christmas) I disagree with your basic premise that divesity makes the workplace more productive. It depends what you mean by “diversity”; If you hold race and religion to be irreleavent – then diversity in view can increase productivity IF they are grounded in a common set of goals and shared values. If diversity means different goals and core values – it just creates chaos in the workplace.
For diversity to work – it must included respect for one another including religion and political views. It should include the basic respect for freedom of religion and speech – EVEN IN THE WORKPLACE. The same as “equal rights” in regard to non-descrimination is required in US workplaces – so the other rights like speach and religion are required in the workplace.
Posted by Robin on December 30, 2010 at 11:50 am | permalink |
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Posted by chiropractor on March 29, 2011 at 12:01 am | permalink |
Well i am a christian and our church have never observed christmas.I see your point clearly i work for a community college they allow a custodian supervisor to turn a shop into the winter wonderland.she starts in oct.and finishes in dec.everyone is forced to attend.all this is done on county time.these people have no regaurds for others religion we do however celebrate easter but i have never been given good friday off to observe it.there was a co-worker who i never knew he was jewish until he retired he went to all these parties and never said a word until he left.i feel if you want to celebrate fine do it but dont force others its not right i grew up not observing so the day is silly to me it makes no sense.
Posted by soders on December 12, 2011 at 7:46 am | permalink |
I understand your uneasiness or difficulty in coping with that which you don’t engage in -I feel the same way about concerts, and similar performances, and yet, being an adult, I sit politely and try not to ruin it for those who do enjoy them.
I disagree with “”Christmas is not about religion!” It’s always the Christians who say that.” Christmas IS about Christianity, and no Christian should be so misinformed as to utter such nonsense that it is not. To not believe it is, means to not be a Christian.
Before you get too wound up that “it’s easy for him to say, as a member of the majority group” I attended a high school that was majority black. ALL of the novels in my literature classes were by black authors. We had Black History Week (but didn’t have an “Poor White Immigrant Minute”). Big deal. I read, I studied, I participated, I earned my grades, scholarships, and went on to a “more diverse” university.
If you truly want to make people comfortable with diversity, let them choose to take the day off on Yom Kippur, Christmas, their birthday, or the “Day nobody elese takes”, but they have to select the day a the start of the year.
Posted by M Sibille on December 16, 2011 at 11:40 am | permalink |
Coming out as a lesbian was easier than coming out as an atheist. You are right on about Xmas, Penelope, but I’d add one more thing: in December there should be xpress lanes in stores for non-xtians.
Posted by C Lacey on December 20, 2011 at 12:33 pm | permalink |
Diversity is more about acceptance and not trying to pin point things on religion. I am a Christian from India where we celebrate Unity in Diversity. And yes, though the majority of the people there are Hindu, Xmas is celebrated as a holiday season. And no..I dont make a fuss about Diwali being celebrated saying it is celebrated only by the Hindus and is not conducive to “diversity”. So, grow up. Be an adult..be diverse by accepting the culture of a place – historically America has had a culture of celebrating Xmas..why change something that people enjoy celebrating? No where else in the world would people do away with a harmless festivity that a majority of the people enjoy.
Posted by Neena on December 23, 2011 at 1:06 pm | permalink |
RE: Neena’s comment
So happy to see your comment Neena. It sometimes seems as if America is filled with a bunch of spooled rich kids that have to have their own way – totally disregarding what others want! Many of then actually believe that anything they find "offensive" should be outlawed. Simply because they many not celebrate Christmas they are totally intolerant of those that do – and they profess this view in the name of "diversity". I have a more precise name for it – "hypocrisy" .
I wish a few of these self-centered self-righteous brats would take a few minutes to read the 1st amendment to the US constitution, they might notice it says a great deal about freedom and nothing about taking away freedoms in the name of diversity or equality.
Posted by Robin on December 23, 2011 at 3:49 pm | permalink |
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