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		<title>By: Dylan Rodrigues</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dylan Rodrigues</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 22:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WomensMentorship.com allows you to search for mentors for free in all career fields.  It is for women only and also has mentorship resources based on your career focus area.</description>
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		<title>By: The Executive Selection Mystery &#124; iOrgPsych</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Executive Selection Mystery &#124; iOrgPsych</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] think this is where that whole, You Need a Mentor to Succeed thing comes in. When you have developed a level of trust with someone, they are more likely to give [...]</description>
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		<title>By: DodaPedia &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Career lessons from Susan Boyle&#8217;s success</title>
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		<dc:creator>DodaPedia &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Career lessons from Susan Boyle&#8217;s success</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 14:17:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] It’s very, very hard to land in the limelight on your own. So many studies of success – from Fortune 500 executives to startup entrepreneurs  &#8211; all show that a key factor is finding people to help you navigate [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] It’s very, very hard to land in the limelight on your own. So many studies of success – from Fortune 500 executives to startup entrepreneurs  &#8211; all show that a key factor is finding people to help you navigate [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 12:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How coincidental I find this comment:
&lt;blockquote&gt;but iv been wondering if there is a mentoring program that offers fashion design that i could attend without being a college grad or attending college. if anyone has as information please email me it would be extremely helpful.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
...because I&#039;m in the fashion industry helping start ups and have written several times about how to find mentors since I do a lot of that. You&#039;re right, it&#039;s enjoyable. The most recent entry I wrote on the topic is called &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fashion-incubator.com/archive/how-to-find-help-in-the-apparel-industry-for-nearly-nothing/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to find help in the apparel industry for nearly nothing&lt;/a&gt;. The problem with finding a mentor is &lt;b&gt;you are equal to your five closest friends&lt;/b&gt;. Think about that for a minute. Consider:

&lt;blockquote&gt;Are your five friends successful designers in the business? Or are they just like you, stuck at the starting gate? It’s fantasy to believe you’ll get lucky meeting the right people while stuck in an elevator. In real life, you can easily find and make friends with people who are most like what you want to be or who are at the point where you want to be for nearly nothing.

Having connections is not an accident; anyone can acquire them as a&lt;b&gt; matter of intent&lt;/b&gt; -chance favors the prepared. That means you’ll have to join their turf, people most able to help you aren’t hanging out in free forums or message boards because they are [also] looking for people who are at their level or above it -not below it [to solve their own problems]. There are a few garment industry forums out there but because these are public and anyone can join, no one posts proprietary information so there’s no useful give and take. The paradox is that because they are public, they stagnate and fail to grow. There’s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fashion-incubator.com/mt/archives/why_no_one_will_help_you.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;very good reasons&lt;/a&gt; why people with proprietary information don’t post in public and it has nothing to do with selfishness or fears of competition... The difference between you and people you want to be like is that they have already figured out that they won’t find what they’re looking for wherever it is you’ve been looking.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

The truth is, those in a position to mentor you, are also hoping to be mentored themselves. Like attracts like, you have to hang in their turf. If you go through the hurdles of joining them, you&#039;re already a level above the 95% of the crowd and others will take an interest in you because you&#039;ve taken an interest and done the due diligence to join them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How coincidental I find this comment:</p>
<blockquote><p>but iv been wondering if there is a mentoring program that offers fashion design that i could attend without being a college grad or attending college. if anyone has as information please email me it would be extremely helpful.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8230;because I&#039;m in the fashion industry helping start ups and have written several times about how to find mentors since I do a lot of that. You&#039;re right, it&#039;s enjoyable. The most recent entry I wrote on the topic is called <a href="http://www.fashion-incubator.com/archive/how-to-find-help-in-the-apparel-industry-for-nearly-nothing/" rel="nofollow">How to find help in the apparel industry for nearly nothing</a>. The problem with finding a mentor is <b>you are equal to your five closest friends</b>. Think about that for a minute. Consider:</p>
<blockquote><p>Are your five friends successful designers in the business? Or are they just like you, stuck at the starting gate? It’s fantasy to believe you’ll get lucky meeting the right people while stuck in an elevator. In real life, you can easily find and make friends with people who are most like what you want to be or who are at the point where you want to be for nearly nothing.</p>
<p>Having connections is not an accident; anyone can acquire them as a<b> matter of intent</b> -chance favors the prepared. That means you’ll have to join their turf, people most able to help you aren’t hanging out in free forums or message boards because they are [also] looking for people who are at their level or above it -not below it [to solve their own problems]. There are a few garment industry forums out there but because these are public and anyone can join, no one posts proprietary information so there’s no useful give and take. The paradox is that because they are public, they stagnate and fail to grow. There’s <a href="http://www.fashion-incubator.com/mt/archives/why_no_one_will_help_you.html" rel="nofollow">very good reasons</a> why people with proprietary information don’t post in public and it has nothing to do with selfishness or fears of competition&#8230; The difference between you and people you want to be like is that they have already figured out that they won’t find what they’re looking for wherever it is you’ve been looking.</p></blockquote>
<p>The truth is, those in a position to mentor you, are also hoping to be mentored themselves. Like attracts like, you have to hang in their turf. If you go through the hurdles of joining them, you&#039;re already a level above the 95% of the crowd and others will take an interest in you because you&#039;ve taken an interest and done the due diligence to join them.</p>
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		<title>By: Being a young entrepreneur is an alternative to job hunting &#171; internSHARE Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Being a young entrepreneur is an alternative to job hunting &#171; internSHARE Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 21:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] done that before can be invaluable and will definitely save you on time, money, and frustration. Finding a mentor is also within reach. As mentioned before, CYBF has locations across Canada which offer free [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] done that before can be invaluable and will definitely save you on time, money, and frustration. Finding a mentor is also within reach. As mentioned before, CYBF has locations across Canada which offer free [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Entrepreneurship as an alternative to job hunting &#124; TalentEgg Career Incubator</title>
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		<dc:creator>Entrepreneurship as an alternative to job hunting &#124; TalentEgg Career Incubator</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 20:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] done that before can be invaluable and will definitely save you on time, money, and frustration. Finding a mentor is also within reach. As mentioned before, CYBF has locations across Canada which offer free [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] done that before can be invaluable and will definitely save you on time, money, and frustration. Finding a mentor is also within reach. As mentioned before, CYBF has locations across Canada which offer free [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Penelope Trunk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Penelope Trunk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 16:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;I&gt;You probably don&#039;t need a coach to be local. Most coaching is over the phone. You can find be searching on Google, or you can go to find a list of coaches I like here:

http://www.brazencareerist.com/coachology/

-Penelope&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>You probably don&#039;t need a coach to be local. Most coaching is over the phone. You can find be searching on Google, or you can go to find a list of coaches I like here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/coachology/" rel="nofollow">http://www.brazencareerist.com/coachology/</a></p>
<p>-Penelope</i></p>
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		<title>By: Gafar  Basil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gafar  Basil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 06:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, 
I would like to know how i can find a mentor in my state of Florida, I AM living IN ORLANDO and would like to change carrier i am currently working in the construction field.
Right now there is no work so i went and took classes for Accredited claims Adjuster and obtained my license so with no experience in this field i would like to find someone that can guide me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello,<br />
I would like to know how i can find a mentor in my state of Florida, I AM living IN ORLANDO and would like to change carrier i am currently working in the construction field.<br />
Right now there is no work so i went and took classes for Accredited claims Adjuster and obtained my license so with no experience in this field i would like to find someone that can guide me.</p>
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		<title>By: A feel-good Friday post: The magic of mentors &#171; Flackette</title>
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		<dc:creator>A feel-good Friday post: The magic of mentors &#171; Flackette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:29:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] My favorite career expert maven, Penelope Trunk, on mentoring [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Don&#8217;t find good mentors. They&#8217;ll find you. &#124; Leap Walking</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don&#8217;t find good mentors. They&#8217;ll find you. &#124; Leap Walking</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 11:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] here&#8217;s the thing about mentoring. I&#8217;ve read a lot about how necessary they are. And to be honest, I&#8217;m not sure if I have one. Which means [...]</description>
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