In short, I don't think Penelope is responsible for the situation, but that she is trying to shed light on it and promote awareness. I think it's sad that "more attractive" people get hired more often. Sad or not, it's still a reality we all have to face.

Good luck to everyone still looking!

"You know good-looking when you see it, and you know ugly when you see it, and a body that's been exposed to regular exercise at the gym is probably not ugly."

Uh-huh. And those of us who have unfashionably flabby bodies must, perforce, be "ugly," regardless of what our significant others say.

Thanks, honey. Let me guess, you're yet another phony-baloney suit, or maybe an HR bimbo, who looks down on anyone who isn't toned, tan, extraverted, and nattily tailored.

Yours is one blog I won't be reading for career advice. I'd like to get as far away from people of your mindset as possible.

I, too, was at the top of my class in HS. I found Penelope's 3rd paragraph very compelling. They don't teach you those things in AP Calculus! When I was talking to my friend about this concept, he nodded and said that it is easier for athletes to get into Ivy League schools than non-athletes. I'm not sure if this is accurate, but it makes a measure of sense.

I was not a super-popular athlete in gradeschool. I was average. I didn't play any sports for my school. When I was young, I played soccer just for fun. I wasn't very good, but it didn't matter. I was playing a game with my friends, and that's all that mattered.

After that, I took to solitary early-morning jogs around a public golf course near my house. The best thing about early-morning runs is that no one's watching! You can be awkward and out of breath, but no one's there staring at you on a treadmill.

Now that I'm almost to the point of obesity, I'm even less likely to exercise in public! There is a small gym at my apt complex that I go use the elliptical trainer at early in the morning when no one else is there. I do yoga and pilates in my living room. No judging eyes there, except my cat who looks at me a little funny!

But being out of shape at the gym outside of work is fine. I recommend Curves for you. It's a national chain of gyms that caters to women who are not comfortable going to a gym.

But look, don't hide behind a lack of coordination. The benefits of getting exercise are independent of talent.

You are perfectly capable of going to the gym and walking on a treadmill and learning to lift weights. Go do that now, really.

I am so happy to be able to use the example of my friend, who is wheel-chair bound. He just competed in a national horseback riding competition for athletes with disabilities. He writes emails about the excitement of athletic competition with the same excitement, the same adjectives, that an Olympic athlete would.

The thrill of using your body to the best of your abilities is open to every single person.

And the article doesn't say that you need to exercise in a public, group situation to obtain the benefits. While team sports have benefits, the article points out that so does just staying in shape. One can do this by walking regularly, using exercise videos, employing exercise equipment at home, etc.
Take care…

Some of us JUST don't have it, which makes those "just do it" ads that much more painful to watch. And now you're saying I have to be an athlete to maximize my chances of career success? Despite my lack of athletic ability, I still managed to graduate 2nd in my class and was elected VP of student government and even made second place in the Homecoming Queen contest ("lady-in-waiting" - yes, it's a goofy title, but it represented the affection and respect of my classmates). So I didn't have to be an athlete to be considered a leader in my class. I just had to be a leader. But I'm self-conscious about my physical abilities to the point where I refuse to work out at the gym in my office, because I'm embarrassed to do so in front of my colleagues. Does that make me less worthy of the management position I hold?

Consider yourself LUCKY you can run and jump and throw. But don't push us non-athletes against the wall for the sake of a column. That would make you no better than the bullies in middle school.

Most people know this intuitively, I think. But few are ready to put it into words in such a cut-and-dried way as Diana.

-Penelope

While I don't think (most!) employers are necessarily "prejudiced" against overweight candidates (we're not a legally protected class, are we?), I do believe that employers favor fit candidates.

It makes so much sense… When you see a fit person, you assume that in order to achieve and maintain themselves, they must be self-motivating, confident people who can achieve goals, etc., etc. On the other hand, when you see a person who has "let themselves go", you might assume that they are lazy, and the lack drive and self-discipline to achieve goals.

Of course, I'm not saying that these prejudices are correct at all. I know some very confident overweight people and some fit people with horrible self-esteem. I will say, though, that people who exercise regularly (I've started noticing this in myself) tend to carry themselves in a different way that couch-potatos. They interact with people better and are more likely to positively contribute to a group situation. In my experience, and in observation of others, people who start exercising again tend to be happier, more optimistic, and less prone to depression and negativity.

Keep up the good work; I always enjoy reading what you have to say!

Now… where are my running shoes?!