Make office politics work for you
August 31st, 2003
Everyone stop working right now. Ask yourself these questions:
1. Does my boss like having one-on-one meetings with me?
2. Do my co-workers like going to lunch with me?
If you cannot answer yes to both these questions, then you are focusing on the wrong stuff at work. It doesn't matter how well you do your job. If …
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3 things to teach your kids so they succeed in life
August 26th, 2003
The kid competition starts early, with sleep. For the first six months of my son's life, someone would ask me every day, “How's his sleeping?” As if sleep practices are a window into a baby's genius. (And let me tell you something, if sleep is the SATs for babies, I am living with the village …
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Brag is not a 4-letter word
August 23rd, 2003
Peggy Klaus flits around the crowded room of 40 women like a fairy. She wields a silver-plated backscratcher and strokes the unsuspecting — on a wrist, a neck — cooing, “Doesn’t that feel good?”
This is how Peggy warms up the party to get everyone to start bragging. My friend Liz is horrified. Liz can’t believe …
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How to cope with self-doubt
August 21st, 2003
A very major publication just reviewed my friend's book. The reviewer loved the book and as I read the review, each laudatory sentence makes me more ill. I feel an overwhelming moment of self-doubt coming on. I get sweaty and my heart pounds and I feel like the world will end if I don't have …
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Learn to work like a Microsoft millionaire
August 18th, 2003
The major difference between a millionaire and a working stiff is that the worker uses his job as an excuse for why he’s not living his dreams and a millionaire doesn’t have that luxury. So if you want to feel like a millionaire, start asking yourself the million-dollar question: What would make me feel fulfilled?
In …
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